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Newtochastity
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Has anyone here ever been a cuckold or has any woman here ever cuckolded their man. Me and my girlfriend recently started a cuckolding relationship where I’m locked but she can pursue what she wants. Just wanted to see if this is a common practice among chastity users.

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Topic starter Posted : 06/01/2022 9:58 am
subhubphx
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Posted by: @newtochastity

Has anyone here ever been a cuckold or has any woman here ever cuckolded their man. Me and my girlfriend recently started a cuckolding relationship where I’m locked but she can pursue what she wants. Just wanted to see if this is a common practice among chastity users.

There are several people here that have participated in ethical non-monogamy, including our esteemed hostess.  I encourage you to take the time to poke around the site.  I'm certain you'll find valuable information here.


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Posted : 06/01/2022 10:52 am
nevertoolate
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Ethical non-monogamy is the label it gets on this site. Partly because the chastity control seems to begat the extra curricular activities where as others like me started out in a "half open marriage" and become more interested in penis control of the hubby as part of the denial dynamic. I find it all fascinating because it seems to naturally evolve into the same relationships and roles.

Seems like we were more likely to seek this all along?!

Welcome!

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Posted : 06/01/2022 11:52 am
subhubphx
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Posted by: @nevertoolate

Ethical non-monogamy is the label it gets on this site. Partly because the chastity control seems to begat the extra curricular activities where as others like me started out in a "half open marriage" and become more interested in penis control of the hubby as part of the denial dynamic. I find it all fascinating because it seems to naturally evolve into the same relationships and roles.

Seems like we were more likely to seek this all along?!

Welcome!

I think it's called ethical non-monogamy here because some people here have an aversion to the terms cuckold.  To them, it has a negative connotation for the husband that is perpetuated by the porn-fueled version of what a cuckold is portrayed as.  

Also, I don't know that I agree that "chastity control" is a precursor to cuckold/ENM or a natural progression.  Sure, in some instances it could be, but I believe that it's the exception and not the rule.  

"Just my opinion, I could be wrong."  -  Dennis Miller

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Posted : 06/01/2022 4:05 pm
nevertoolate
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@subhubphx Not a hard fast rule. It just seemed to dawn on me that for folks here and in let's say the "hotwife" world, after years of reading and sharing experiences, seem to drift into interests that are more in common. Yes, the cuckold term is a big problem because its roots are in shame, loss of control and humiliation.

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Posted : 06/01/2022 6:47 pm
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HappyCuckold
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@nevertoolate The term “cuckold” is only a problem if you assume that “shame, loss of control and humiliation” are bad things.  For some of us those things are erotically exciting.

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Posted : 06/01/2022 8:48 pm
HappyCuckold
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@subhubphx I agree with you that “chastity control” and “cuckold/ENM” are two separate phenomena and that one doesn’t necessarily lead to the other.  However, it can be very exciting to combine them if the couple are turned on by a D/s power dynamic. When the wife is allowed to engage in extramarital sex and the husband isn’t, that’s an exciting power differential.  When the husband isn’t even allowed to have orgasms while his wife is enjoying sex with another man, the power differential is raised to a whole new level.

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Posted : 06/01/2022 9:00 pm
subhubphx
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Posted by: @nevertoolate

@subhubphx Not a hard fast rule. It just seemed to dawn on me that for folks here and in let's say the "hotwife" world, after years of reading and sharing experiences, seem to drift into interests that are more in common. Yes, the cuckold term is a big problem because its roots are in shame, loss of control and humiliation.

Agree, it is not a hard and fast rule.  That was my point.  And yes, there are many shared experiences and things in common among the folks here and places like the "hotwife" world and others.  It's easy to make the logical correlation on those commonalities between couples where the woman controls the man's sex and orgasms, and the women involved wanting and finding other men to have sex with for what I think are logical reasons.  

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Posted : 07/01/2022 6:15 am
subhubphx
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Posted by: @happycuckold

@subhubphx I agree with you that “chastity control” and “cuckold/ENM” are two separate phenomena and that one doesn’t necessarily lead to the other.  However, it can be very exciting to combine them if the couple are turned on by a D/s power dynamic. When the wife is allowed to engage in extramarital sex and the husband isn’t, that’s an exciting power differential.  When the husband isn’t even allowed to have orgasms while his wife is enjoying sex with another man, the power differential is raised to a whole new level.

Agree completely.  Let's face it, on some level, when a woman places her man in a chastity cage and controls his orgasm, it is a power exchange dynamic.  A Wife led Marriage/Female Led Relationship.  In the context of such a relationship, the individual dynamics between that couple determine their behavior and what is suitable for them, but mainly her.  All of those dynamics play out in a natural order based on the desires of each (mostly her) and should include massive amounts of communication.  Without communication, many things can go wrong.  Unlike many men that are under the loving and consensual control of their woman, I don't have a personal desire to see my wife have an additional sex partner on its own.  It's not a fetish for me.  Likewise, Ms. K. doesn't desire sex with another man (or woman).  If that were to change for her, my desire to see her life in bliss in her life would indeed eclipse any reservation I may have against it, and after enormous amounts of communication about it, I would support her in that merely to be able to witness her joy, in whatever manner she desired

... should she so choose.  I hope that makes sense.


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Posted : 07/01/2022 6:29 am
Newtochastity
(@newtochastity)
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What started it was since I’ve been locked I treat her very well the bond is strong but she’s not getting laid enough rather then unlocking more then once a week on a regular basis she gets it from her dates and there’s nothing better then seeing her in full orgasmic pleasure. The feeling of her making another man orgasm while denying me is also enthralling

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Topic starter Posted : 07/01/2022 10:08 pm
FlaFLR
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@newtochastity   WOW!,  This sounds very hot!  The locked in chastity and cuckolded area of a FLR to me is the hottest thing about a FLR.  If I ever do find a dominant lady for a FLR, I only hope I could experience this with her.  I would love to be in your position.  The loss of an emotional connection would be my main concern with chastity cuckolding,  I realize the physical connection is gone.  To watch her enjoying sex with another man while I am locked in chastity would be a dream come true! 

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Posted : 08/01/2022 10:57 am
Nguyen
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It started for us as a threesome with a man whom we met while vacationing in Florida. After the threesome started my wife said some words to me which will stay in my head forever. 

Why don't you sit back and watch, my love.

I did and she was right. It was amazing. I am not locked but watching her with another man brings joy to both of us. I am her emotional partner forever. Separating physical lust from emotional love is a wonderful milestone for us. 

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Posted : 08/01/2022 12:12 pm
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bestwhencaged
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@nguyen i'd really like this for my Wife: MMF 3somes, and maybe where i watch two other men with Her.

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Posted : 08/01/2022 12:45 pm
FlaFLR
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@nguyen   Separating physical lust from emotional love, is much better statement.  I would only be concerned about loosing the emotional love.  Chastity can stop the physical lust from happening.

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Posted : 08/01/2022 12:52 pm
FlaFLR
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@bestwhencaged   A dominant lady might want her locked sub husband to participate in a MMF threesome.

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Posted : 08/01/2022 12:55 pm
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