So me and the wife where talking..... And found something we never discovered before in our swinging lifestyle 

There is a power structure!

Now I don't know if all swingers do this or it's just us I don't know if it's something we did or it's just something that happens organically 

All the people my wife sleeps or plays with seem to always defer to me as the top dog ... I'm the boss whether I want to be or not 

All the ladies who have fun with me defer to my wife as the boss 

These people always put themselves under us for some reason ..... Is it respect guilt feer .....  I don't know 😶 

But even in our everyday lives they continue to defer to us that way even outside of the bedroom fun going out the boys follow me what I say go's ( not shere how I feel about that ) .... The ladies line up after the wife ..... 

Just thought it was weird I never noticed it or even though of it before 

What do you guys think 🤔