I'm going to talk about something that might help us all 

We all where masks without exception 

My mask is ..... That I'm just like everyone else .... I'm not no ego no nothing 

Behind your mask is when you are most valuable for me behind my mask your most valuable.... I can only take it off around my closest friends.... 

A lot of what is talked about on this page is how epic it is to pull off that mask and be your self .... It can be however you always must take a hard look at yourself and know who should be allowed to see it .... 

Maybe humiliation pulls your mask off ok good deal for you be careful who you let know that .... If you know that about someone else be mindful of who might try it as well protect them you have the key to who they are 

Maybe it's sex ..... Be careful that can be used against you .... Not everyone is playing games in good faith 

Maybe it's in detail.... Maybe the feeling of wanting is what defines you .... 

Maybe it's in being in charge the powerful one ..... Yes this to can be used against you 

Now how to know who to pull your mask of with do you

Trust them 

Love them 

Know them 

Are there safety words 

Can you talk and be herd

Do they check on you atomically 

Can they read your emotions 

Then yes these people are safe value them hold onto them I have seen a lot of people loses a lot more then just a relationship getting tricked by bad actors ( some people just want to watch the world burn ) ... 

Just something that has been in the back of my mind I thought I'd share