So over the years I have always been asked to pitch hit for things others can't do 😕Â
My husband can't fix this can you my guy won't do this can you hey Len I hear your good at {fill in blank}Â
But over the last 30 years what really stuck out was your the husband manly man your the leader boss people constantly calling themselves second third or fourth wivesÂ
But let's carry on .... Soooo my friends are in a relationship but they have a bit of a problem he has angst problems that make it hard to communicateÂ
She has a form of autism that makes it hard for her to know when to stopÂ
A grate couple very loving just had a baby .... We are the god parents.....
How ever let's get back on track there was something missing in there relationship that almost made it fall apart she would not know when to stop he couldn't tell her when to stop you see thatÂ
So one day she was getting a bit rough heavier in her words and actions and her hubby was backing away .... And then I stepped in-between... Hew duffus get out of the way I'm talking to...... And before she finished she was up and over my shoulder ok bud let's get going...... I didn't know I did something sparked something that suddenly made there relationship work he hubby was taking pictures of her face as I carried her off she was grinning ear to earÂ
Second time she hates being dressed likes to when in private be as naked as she can be we where at a hotel going to see five finger death Punch... She was having a episode I think you could say naked and a little pregnant... She was kinda acting out baby in belly uncomfortable hot 🥵 and all out and out mad 😡.... She started getting handsy .... Me :Ash you need to settle down we are in a hotel.... Her: WTF are you going to do ? .... Ok I'm going to say it at the time all I saw was someone being a brat ... And before I thought about what I was doing..... Ok ok I might have had a drink or two..... I spanked her butt Me :sit down 👇 and settle down your a adult act like it ....Â
Again her hubby was in shock 😲 took pics ..... Latter she walked over apologized to me and him and sat next to me I didn't know it but I unlocked a kink for herÂ
Oh Lord what have I done....Â
So now anytime she needs to know when to stop her hubby texts me I tell her if she's in a mood she comes over for ummmmmm well ..... Ok ... A spanking there I sead it .... It feels weird for me to say out loudÂ
Am I a Dom bull drill instructor I have no clue??????Â
Thought you might enjoy have a epic day 😎
Additional points of interestÂ
1: She always called herself my second wife even before she got with her hubbyÂ
2: whenever she's in the mood it seems she must be naked I think this is a form of submission being needing to be vulnerableÂ
3: her hubby taking pics she needs to be seen she always needed to remember these momentsÂ
4: she's always sub to my wife whatever she says go's..... However she is defiant to me till she gets what she needs we call it brat mode .... Then she flips to the most loving caring woman you ever metÂ
5: nope we don't have sex there relationship is not open...... I'm not shere what's going on there are times I get mixed signals.... But communication is very very difficult so I leave that part out if they ever bring it up we talk and then they go home talk some more ...... Might be best left a fantasy....
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