Why we love what we love?

Hello all,

I have been in a relationship with a woman for quite some time who has many domme qualities and on occasion, reveals what I see as her true nature, and it is glorious!

The question she has, always comes back to... why? Why am I into this or that? What is the reason for wanting to be dominated in someway. I am not sure I can explain why. Certainly I have failed to express it to any satisfactory level.

Can I kindly ask, can any of you explain why you find yourself here, or seeking the lifestyle? I would love any insights or thoughts any of you can share.

Humbly,

nhi