In Emma's recent post she says men are easy saying words can shape them ..... I find that kinda funny 🤣 .... Not only can I say that about woman hell I could go into 12 different ways to use words to get them climbing the walls 

( But that isn't nice and I won't use those weapons unless needed )

All of what she sead there is true however it doesn't work with everyone but one shere fire way that always works is action 

You can learn a lot from people by what they do and less by what they say ...

Got a saying around the dumpster ( can't control your words you will be told to leave can't control your actions you better run like hell )

Let say in the heat of the moment words are sead .... They where bad .... But the action you do on realizing that you caused pain are what shows true feelings... 

Do nothing to fix the pain you caused well look at that every one can see your a piece of sh_t 

Put a full stop 🛑 to fix apologize repair the situation.... Wow see that's someone who cares 

Action does more to tell and motivate people then words 

When someone shows you who they are believe them