I’m in an ideal FLR with the best match I could ever dream of for a wife. I’m slipping deeper and deeper into submission/cravings of being a less than a man that I’m craving her finding someone better and basically leaving me. Flying too close to the sun. I don’t want to sabotage what I have been lucky enough to be a part of.
If you don’t want to go down that path, I think you should reframe your idea of submission to completely separate it from being helpless and incapable. You want to be valuable and useful to your wife. IMO it enhances your submission and her dominance if she has a lion submit to her instead of a mouse.
Thank you for the replies! I was in a spiral, just needed a wake up call. We’re starting a renewed chapter of FLR after lots of ebb and flow over the years. Recently consumed a lot of FLR content to and have been keeping the beta energy going with no release. Stepping into my new role as basically housewife/husband with her as the bread winner let the bottom fall out for how deep I fell into submission. She let the girls sleep with her last night since she’s been working so much. In the guest bedroom I started seeing that as where I should be permanently while she got on bumble and searched for a better man than me. Replies on here and X snapped me out of that spiral. Thanks again!
