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Allen007
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We have all probably come across an article I will post below. I have seen the exact topic before but coming from people who know nurses and work with nurses and even in the comments, nurses will put their hands up. My question isn’t really about nurses as it’s clear it’s their environment that plays a part and I would guess it would lead to a workplace culture that was also to blame. It’s just that reading the article led to a thought and I decided to turn it into a topic.

I have been on this site learning about FLR for about 3 weeks. I am very new to it but what I have learnt, is that it requires study, knowledge, and skills, along with communication. I am wondering what impact learning about FLR might have an a woman who was cheating on her husband. 

I like this site a lot because it speaks about psychology. On one of those other stories on cheating female nurses; one reason given, was that these women were working with doctors who were identified as high status men. I do dimly remember Emma writing that FLR will break down if the man is too submissive and also dating. I will have to find that article again.

I am trying to piece together what I have learnt with women cheating in a marriage. I just don’t have enough knowledge to take the exercise very far.

I will post the article below.

 

A recent study from Illicit Encounters, a UK-based dating site for married people, suggests that female nurses are statistically more likely to cheat than women in other professions. According to their data, nurses made up the largest percentage of female users on the platform. The demanding work schedules and emotional strain of healthcare jobs may play a role in this trend.
 
Psychologists note that nurses often work long, irregular hours, sometimes leading to emotional disconnect in relationships. Combined with the emotional intensity of caring for others, this can make healthcare workers more prone to seeking connection outside their relationships. It’s not about morality, it’s about environment, stress, and opportunity.
 
Critics argue the findings are sensationalized and fail to account for broader social factors. Regardless, the study reignites conversation about the effects of demanding careers on personal lives.

 

 


 
Posted : 25/06/2025 12:27 am
DanCuckold
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Interesting question. Immediate reflex answer is you may be in a FLR or not, the relationship situation would still require acceptance on the part of the man who has been "replaced". 

I guess for it to be cheating, the cheated-on must not have given permission or acceptance. 


 
Posted : 25/06/2025 2:24 am
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Ljg
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Did you know you can cheat in a swinging relationship did you know you can cheat in a poly relationship? 

Cheating is having sex outside of the relationship and well lying and cheating no matter what rules you make follow cheating is going outside those rules to get whatever they want ...... Most of the time just to get outside of those rules they made in the first place.....

The only solution I have found for cheating is the cheater respecting the needs of others or themselves..... 

We are capable of overcoming our base urges...... If I can do it anyone can 😂 


 
Posted : 25/06/2025 6:47 am
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Mat
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My wife cheated/ cuckolded me many years ago.  She had me buy her an anklet and put it on her then had a biker boyfriend.  But I didn’t understand the anklet thing and how she felt I was giving permission.  Her girl friends had encouraged her, but our communication was bad.  And if she had come home , shared the experience and taken care of me we would probably still be in a cuckold relationship.  That didn’t happen, and I felt abandoned.  But we struggled through and raised our children, bad communication and all.  

now that we are playing with chastity, I can see we might end up back in a chastity cuck dynamic.  I hope/ I fear she might find out about my chastity faggot slave fantasy’s in the future.


 
Posted : 28/09/2025 11:51 pm
Mat
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My wife cheated/ cuckolded me many years ago.  She had me buy her an anklet and put it on her then had a biker boyfriend.  But I didn’t understand the anklet thing and how she felt I was giving permission.  Her girl friends had encouraged her, but our communication was bad.  And if she had come home , shared the experience and taken care of me we would probably still be in a cuckold relationship.  That didn’t happen, and I felt abandoned.  But we struggled through and raised our children, bad communication and all.  

now that we are playing with chastity, I can see we might end up back in a chastity cuck dynamic.  I hope/ I fear she might find out about my chastity faggot slave fantasy’s in the future.


 
Posted : 28/09/2025 11:51 pm
Mat
 Mat
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My wife cheated/ cuckolded me many years ago.  She had me buy her an anklet and put it on her then had a biker boyfriend.  But I didn’t understand the anklet thing and how she felt I was giving permission.  Her girl friends had encouraged her, but our communication was bad.  And if she had come home , shared the experience and taken care of me we would probably still be in a cuckold relationship.  That didn’t happen, and I felt abandoned.  But we struggled through and raised our children, bad communication and all.  

now that we are playing with chastity, I can see we might end up back in a chastity cuck dynamic.  I hope/ I fear she might find out about my chastity faggot slave fantasy’s in the future.


 
Posted : 28/09/2025 11:52 pm
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You’re a submissive cuckold and your wife enjoys screwing you over, it seems like a great marriage. I’m in a similar situation my wife is dominant I’m submissive, my wife has complete sexual freedom we both are in agreement that’s her right. My wife knew I was submissive right from the start she’s like a huntress she sensed me like I was her prey. She just took control of me put me in my place I love her very much. She told me right from the start she doesn’t think of me as a real man. She thinks of me more as her property she said I don’t love you I love to own you.


 
Posted : 29/09/2025 8:05 am
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CraigRudd
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That is what I feel. I am still with my wife because it was either forgive or break up.


 
Posted : 30/09/2025 3:21 pm
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Rushbiov23
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The only solution for cheating is doing your best to not be a dishonest pile of 💩. Cheating is completely and totally preventable you don’t catch it like the common cold nor do you become more likely to cheat due to your occupation— Seriously, what is this sudden out of the blue belief that all nurses are also getting railed every other shift by Dr. Dickherdown and why is the nurse always a woman and the doctor always a male and why do you think either of them would risk an entire career, licensing, livelihood, etc etc etc.

 

Is FLR the solution for cheating? No, but self-respect and common courtesy are the solution to a lot, if not most things. 


 
Posted : 04/10/2025 9:17 pm
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I can only speak for myself , I was a 17 year old virgin and I was fortunate to have met a dominant older black Master. He taught me to be obedient and loyal through isolation ,discipline and punishment sessions and my dominant wife has kept me submissive obedient and loyal  in the same way. I not a cheater that’s for sure.  

 

 


 
Posted : 09/10/2025 6:35 am
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