She has considerately said she will help me with enforced chastity, for the next four months, the we re evaluate New Years Eve. I have the responsibilities of creating a basic plan. My plan, unlock but chaste until the new small cage arrives, then a gradual build up of locked days to unlocked. But she controls any sexual outlet and I’m chaste otherwise. 6 orgasms for me, basically 2 -September, none for Loctober, 2 -Nov7 and 2- December. She likes the Six Num beer for a total. BUT she has demanded pic Lovemaking 3 times in the first week of September. Which by my count leaves 3 for the next 15 plus weeks. How do you think this sounds for a basic plan?
It’s been a long time coming. Thirty years of marriage, kids, mistakes and baggage. Over the last few years she has caught me self locking twice and sneered at my perversion. But as she has accepted this, I have a written journal that she is encouraged to read and write in, we are regaining some trust and empathy. Also I think she likes the idea more than she is saying. We have made love 4 times in the last week. There have been times we didn’t have sex 4 times i n the whole year.
new small cage arrives tomorrow. Rolling DND dice for lock up days. 1-4 for the first together
It’s been a long time coming. Thirty years of marriage, kids, mistakes and baggage. Over the last few years she has caught me self locking twice and sneered at my perversion. But as she has accepted this, I have a written journal that she is encouraged to read and write in, we are regaining some trust and empathy. Also I think she likes the idea more than she is saying. We have made love 4 times in the last week. There have been times we didn’t have sex 4 times i n the whole year.
new small cage arrives tomorrow. Rolling DND dice for lock up days. 1-4 for the first together
Pretty good plan, but.... don't be surprised if this is not 100% successful the first time. You may have to make some adjustments along the way. Good things sometimes take time. 🙂
Thank you for your comments, we have now made love 5 times this week, , that hasn’t happened since our twenties. It’s incredible.