Hi everyone,

I'm CarpeDiem, 26, from Brazil and I’m really happy to be part of this community.

I've always been curious and wanted to talk about kinks, but I've never found a safe space (online or in person) where I could talk about these things without feeling judged or ashamed. Most anonymous spaces on the internet end up being very surface-level, lots of graphic fantasies, not much real conversation, so everything feels shallow and repetitive.

I don’t think I have a strict “type” when it comes to dating, but I’m definitely drawn to confident women with strong personalities, women who create a warm, safe vibe but also know their worth and aren’t afraid to take the lead when it feels right. Last year, I was in a relationship that naturally shifted into something close to an FLR, and I discovered dynamics that really resonated with me.

I’m here to learn, share, and connect with new people. I love talking about relationships, FLR, power dynamics, and kinks, but also bigger-picture topics like social issues, culture, and philosophy. I’d love to make friends with open-minded people of any age, from anywhere, whether you're single, dating, or married.

Feel free to say hi, ask anything, or jump into a conversation with me about any topic. And if you ever want to recommend a book, I’m always open to new reads too