We are a happily married couple, living in Germany, my wife is 39, and I am 46. I got interested in the idea of cuckolding/hotwifing first. We talked about it, and my wife likes the idea, and the freedom it gives her, but we are not yet actively living it. She went out once without me, and got hit on by two younger men, and she really enjoyed that. I hope she will take a next step soon. Maybe the next time she goes out without me? Also no cage yet. During daily life it would be weird, our children still walk in and out of the bathroom when we shower for example. I do fantasize about it if she will start dating or take a man home with her. It will then however be restricted to those dates removed link