Hello.  

I am Mike.  My partner is Jess.   Im 46, shes 37.  We are in the great plains usa area in nebraska. We have been exploring non monogamy in a new relationship for under a year.  Id previously been in a swinging relationship and found the experience transactional and unfulfilling.   I didn't want to repeat the same mistakes and jealousy in this relationship.   We both recognized a need for upping desire and variety but quickly realized neither of us were interested in swinging.  After many talks we realized our joy was in her exploration and experiences and my witnessing and feeding off that excitement and energy. It has become a hotwife dynamic and im way happier sharing in her experiences than having my own.  Mine experiences are emotional and powerful and its the excitement for her that fuels me. Hoping to learn and connect w others here.