I'm 48, from the UK, non binary but AMAB. I discovered FLR yesterday and I'm trying to get as much information as possible. I'm widowed and single with 2 teenagers.
I'm here trying to see if this is something I'm interested in. Extreme submission and chastity isn't for me but low level submission (level 1 I think) is interesting. Passing over the decisions and exploring my sub side is something I'm interested in, although not to any great extreme. It's the extremes that worry me.
Hi Anathema,
Welcome to the club, for however long that might be. There could be quite a lot to interest you here and some that doesn't, it's quite a mixed bag. However, male chastity is a quite a key subject and one you shouldn't dismiss out-of-hand. It doesn't have to be "extreme" and once you've given it a go you'll probably find it's something that's a bit of a turn-on. Don't knock it till you've tried it. There are plenty of guys here whom I'm sure would be willing to offer some advice.
Hey, thanks for your kind welcome and to be honest since I left that post I've kind of changed my mind re chastity after doing more research. I've actually ordered a device from Amazon so I'll see how that goes. I'm actually single so I'm not doing it for a partner, but for me to see what changes it produces in me.
I'd love to chat and talk about it with anyone who wants to give a newbie some advice.
I'm not doing it for a partner, but for me
Same here. I have three different cages and self-lock 24/7. I throw five dice and the accumulated score is the number of days I'm locked up, so not less than five and no more than thirty. Two of the cages are fairly open designs and cleaning is quite easy whilst having a shower but in any event I do a full clean session every five days. Could cheat then I suppose but then I'd only be cheating myself so what's the point? I just enjoy the look and it feels great having my tackle in chastity. My greatest highlight was last year when I spent a day on a 'clothes optional' beach wearing just the chastity cage. It took me a week to get back to reality.
For Newbie advise: take it slow.
Sometimes it requires a little adjustment to get used to it. Don't just expect that you can go 24/7 right as you get the cage. You can get there as you practice. Also, sleeping can take a little bit to get used to it.
