Hi everyone, we started out as a couple slowly exploring Chastity and reading. After many failed attempts at getting the right cage we are onto a winner.
Our next step was to read and talk. We eventually agreed to a contract and began soft exploration.
So far we have jointly landed on:
My wife relishes being a Femdom
SPH
Chastity
Orgasm denial
Planning our first munch
My wife has opened up about her kinks
My wife has been honest. Penetrative sex with me is all about me. She does not get a lot of feeling physically.
My wife wants to explore meeting other men who are well hung. We have been together since 17 and she feels this need has been suppressed.
We talk a lot more about kinks, needs and wants. One big benefit from Femdom is our communication. I didn't expect us to share so openly and honestly. I was also not fully prepared for what my wife told me, but I have embraced the fact that this is all small steps. Not zero to 100.
Finally, when I do get a release it is magical. My wife's orgasms have improved as well as she can now fully explore her kinks honestly and without fear of judgement
It sounds like you are on a very exciting path.
Best Wishes
How long have you been together? It’s fascinating to think of our women, the way they are now verses what they were like when we first met them. Never could they have considered cuckolding and male chastity, but now it’s our regular life and conversations.
Hi, we have been together for 32 years now and yes your right. Not only has she evolved, but emotionally I have as well. My growth has been the most important in this process as I would never have coped with SPH as my ego and fragility about my size would not have coped. As the title of this site is called Evolve your Man, I have evolved and today I enjoy SPH and can understand and accept my wife wanting to explore her kink which is the bed with other man. She has never been with a "hung" guy so this fantasy is something she wants to tick off as well.
Hello. You are in for some exciting times. Just keep communicating and have an open mind to things that come your way.