Looking for help with boyfriend

Inquisitive_Kitten · 2025-05-28T08:48:12Z

Hey there. I came across this site recently after seeking some advice and was impressed with the quality of articles exploring all sorts of questions, often from different perspectives. I’d say I’m a career woman and my progression is very important to me. I haven’t had much success with dating and trying to look my best has been a bit of a struggle. Three months back was my first date with a younger man, very handsome. It turned out he is a ‘butler in the buff’ as well as a few other stripping gigs, and some dance tutoring. He explained this often made relationships difficult as his girlfriend’s get jealous. Tbh I thought I sided with the previous ladies and couldn’t see how my self-confidence would manage, but we saw each other a few more times and found it very easy to chat and laugh and enjoyed each others company. So about a month in we started dating what you could say 'properly' as a couple. I noticed he’d try to mitigate my self-confidence concerns about his work by praising and adoring myself and my success. He’d joke about how I wore suits to work while he’d be stripped down to a thong and the future was female. The feminist/adoring vibe he brings I found very empowering and I became more confident and assertive with him. I sensed he wanted me to have the power in the relationship and he’d make a show of doing domestic things for me. He loved hearing about any time I put down a male rival at work too. He opened up more about his enjoyment for his work, stripping off, being objectified. He showed me a website (cfnm) and said he discovered this in his formative years. In private I looked into this more and enjoyed the stories of men being humbled, often by clever, career women. A lot of these stories depicted men doing chores and deferring to the woman. So partially to see if it pleased him (and partially my own interest) I started being more mischievous with him, asserting myself over him. Like once he was late back from a butler in the buff event. I chided him, acted furious and demand he remove all his clothes. I tried spanking him over my knee and scorning him for showing off his ‘pathetic little willy’ while it was trapped between my thighs, and I felt it get hard. He really responded well to this humiliation play and I found it a thrill too. I also love that he admires my business success and he doesn’t feel threatened by it, it even turns him on that I can still be in my business clothes and tell him (in just a thong) to do chores around my house. But it’s still early days and so I’ve joined here to learn and read more and perhaps pick up some more ideas to keep it exciting! My mum and sister still act surprised he’s my boyfriend (very patronising) but sometimes I do worry that he’s so handsome that he’ll be stolen away from me, so I think flr and this kind of lifestyle would suit us best. And I want to be more unapologetic in making that decision for us as I think he’s indicated plenty that he would value that. I would love any advice, male or female! Actually particularly male if you can put yourself in his shoes (not that he gets to wear them often lol).

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I have some updates on things. Is this the best place to do semi-regular updates (also seeking advice) or is there another part of the forum that it's best placed? Thanks!

Posted : 13/07/2025 7:59 am

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