The short version - my wife, who is the love of my life, is now exclusive with the man she has fallen in love with (her Dom, now her Bull and partner).
I will no longer be allowed inside her at all.
As a lifelong cuck-leaning kinkster this is exciting. She assures me - and I believe it - that I am her rock, the one without whom her life wouldn't work. But also, I know that if their relationship keeps developing as it has, that might not stay the case forever.
I love her, and will continue to support her and be as helpful and caring as possible. Because it is her right to experience the sex life she desires.
Appreciate some friendly words here, if anyone is reading. Some guidance, perhaps. Clearly my penis is of no use to her anymore, but I cling to the hope that her heart will stay with me as well as him.
Ok I'm going to guess your ok with everything just want to make shere she still stays coming home to you ok .....
One: keep lines of communication open
Two: stay playful anything to keep her smile
Three: have fun doing your own things and let her see it this will remind her your not just her sub but the man she married
For: be ready to walk away if for temporary relief or permanent let her see that .... Sometimes people don't value things unless they can lose it
Five : make shere no matter what she knows your love for her has no limits except one it must be mutual
If thats all your looking for is the main relationship to stay that should help but I will say no matter what there are no garrotes wishing all the best for you
Thanks. Stay playful and keep doing my own things, two great pieces of advice.
We are good communicators - have been open and unfailingly honest from day one, because our relationship is built on trust and mutual respect. Amongst other things! She is still the same, and we are still.... I would say "inseparable" but she spends half the week with him now!
She assures me - and I believe it - that I am her rock, the one without whom her life wouldn't work. But also, I know that if their relationship keeps developing as it has, that might not stay the case forever.
What reason is there to believe that their relationship will not continue to develop to the point that neither of them wants or needs you? Even agreements made ahead of time cannot stop some relationship things from developing beyond either party's ability to live up to their agreement.
The short version - my wife, who is the love of my life, is now exclusive with the man she has fallen in love with (her Dom, now her Bull and partner).
Fallen in love with? Seriously? I'd say goodbye while you still have a shred of dignity left.
I agree with the above statement
Have I seen it work in the past yes ..... However i just never can see it as being anything I would want .....
But in the end it's all up to him ....
If in the end he needs to walk away I'm shere there are lots of us here including myself who can help him do it with his head held high
Thanks for your response, it's perfectly valid and I can see where you are coming from.
The fact is, she is clearly Poly. It's not a "one or the other" situation for her. The whole situation is fluid - and don't forget, both she and he know full well that I get turned on by cuckolding.
Also should mention - all three of us were obviously very naive and perhaps foolish when we started down this road (when she wanted to spend time with a Dom). But he has been in our lives now for 9 months (ish) and has been honest and actually a good friend to us both in that time. Neither of them set out to make this happen.
Also, he had a family of his own and I know he doesn't want anything complicated. So it is definitely possible that this situation remains as it is now, before their passion starts to wane.
I plan to remain her anchor and let her sail around as she sees fit. She is here with me now and will be for half the week. Things are good between us on an interpersonal and relationship level. I have been replaced in her bed. But not yet in her mind, even though she loves him too.
I hope this makes sense!
The short version - my wife, who is the love of my life, is now exclusive with the man she has fallen in love with (her Dom, now her Bull and partner).
I will no longer be allowed inside her at all.
As a lifelong cuck-leaning kinkster this is exciting. She assures me - and I believe it - that I am her rock, the one without whom her life wouldn't work. But also, I know that if their relationship keeps developing as it has, that might not stay the case forever.
I love her, and will continue to support her and be as helpful and caring as possible. Because it is her right to experience the sex life she desires.
Appreciate some friendly words here, if anyone is reading. Some guidance, perhaps. Clearly my penis is of no use to her anymore, but I cling to the hope that her heart will stay with me as well as him.
Si le Taureau te respecte et protège ta relation ça peut tenir, seulement, le problème est Tombée Amoureuse, Exclusivité Sexuelle et plus de rapports avec mon épouse !
Tu es marié avec elle dans une espèce de Gynerarchie ou tu as tout perdu d'avance.
Ton épouse se souvient de TOI, comme d'un souvenir, d'un Ex Mari, comme si le Taureau avait brisé les liens du Mariage. Cela signifie que ton épouse a gardée de l'affection pour TOI, comme si tu étais un petit Esclave, un enfant à ses yeux qui sert son Maître et sa Maîtresse, incarné par le Couple Dominant, Son Amant qui n'a pas su, Lui faire entendre raison ou prendre ses distances en te demandant de renforcer ta relation avec ton épouse, il aurait dû couper les ponts, ta femme, ta Maîtresse, te garde en satellite, comme un plan B, pour ne pas rester seule en cas d'Abandon ou d'absence de son Taureau parti en baiser une autre !
Un seul conseil, sort au moins une fois par semaine de ta Cage et éjacule pour maintenir un niveau minimum acceptable de testostérone : Ce qui ne sert pas est perdu ! Les taquineries et le fait de flirter, de maintenir une maturité Émotionnelle et une retenue masculine son indispensable, dormez ensemble aussi et parlez-en autour d'un verre ou au lit, ta femme peut aussi te sucer et te faire avaler ta semence en signe de soumission, autre point, seule ta femme décide et dirige, elle encourage et guide avec Amour ! L'amour, les liens émotionnels c'est pour TOI, le Sexe sans engagement c'est pour le Taureau qui doit connaître sa place de Sexe Toy !
C'est ça ou ce sera la rupture !
Le Divorce
Thank you,
Yes we are still very close and still in love with each other. We are romantic together, hold each other, cuddle and kiss. It has been like that today.
Her Bull is her boyfriend, definitely. But he is not after complications. I know Sarah is committed to our marriage. She loves me and him, is in love with us both. Again, she said that today and she is always honest and knows her heart very well. He is the dominant partner for sex, for her physical desires and adventures. I am the dominant partner in other ways.
We will see how things work out. Perhaps you are right, and it will eventually break us if he is not just a sex toy. We will keep communicating and having the difficult conversations as well as the easier ones 🙂
Neither of them set out to make this happen.
They never do. It just happens. That's why entering into a cuckold relationship is playing with fire on the razor's edge. It's nature, and a couple is not just tempting fate, but inspiring it to happen, in spite of promises it won't happen.
So what do you do the other half a week that she's not there ?
Can you go out and have fun or a adventure?
Anything you want to do ?
Can you be poly and see if there is someone to fill the time and position that no longer needs from you ?
Look I understand your just trying to be her rock im just asking questions you should be asking because in the long run the one person all three of you should be worried about is you ... Your the one with the most to lose .... And the one who gave up the most for them ....
Your not useless or at fault..... You should be able to have your cake and eat it ..... Hell yours should be the biggest piece
It is playing with fire in many respects. I agree that any couple - or three people - who play this way are definitely introducing a chance (however high or low) that feelings will become "complicated".
Ha, yes, I'm lucky I don't suffer from confidence issues or feel diminished as a human being as a result of this.
I do of course miss our sex life already (although she made me cum last night, in her mouth, which is of course very intimate).
The real stinger for me at the moment is, even though I can "zoom out" and see the bigger picture, the chance that she and him will remain exclusive together for.....ever??? In which case of course she will go and live with him full time at some point. That would be awful if it happened. But so far I remain about 55% confident - with as much realism and perspective as I can muster - that that won't happen.
I am allowed to play too. She has encouraged it in the past and enjoyed watching me with another woman at one point. Although of course one consequence of denial for me is now my passion is only for my wife.. so I don't want to!!
The real stinger for me at the moment is, even though I can "zoom out" and see the bigger picture, the chance that she and him will remain exclusive together for.....ever??? In which case of course she will go and live with him full time at some point. That would be awful if it happened.
Seems inevitable brother.
Remember step 4 be ready to walk away
Ok you need to get out there see people your stuck in a padern not telling you to walk away just get your ducks in a row let her see it if she truly wants the best for you she will appreciate you looking for what you need that will either spark her sexual interest in you or ...... You might find someone who will spark yours ..... It doesn't mean anything has to end .... Just means you get your cake 🎂
Look I understand I have seen this a lot it's time to put one foot in front of the other and have your own adventure understand your self make new connections half a week for the rest of you life is a long time
You can do this
We will see. I don't think it is, right now, even as she is messaging him to arrange her next stay.
This feels like a logical continuation down the road we set out on. She loves me, still, I know it. Just she loves him too. We are both important for her in different ways. Like I said above, it's not an either-or situation. She could just as easily tire of the dynamic with him and return to me full time, grateful that I gave her the freedom to explore and be certain.
But yes, it is possible....