I’m 23 my girlfriend is 21. We are in college. She confessed to me recently that I do not satisfy her in bed because I am too small and she broached the idea of cuckolding. We’ve had many conversations and I love her I want her to be happy and satisfied. We started using a chastity cage so I could improve my oral skills and focus more on that, the one she picked out was a Barbie pink color the brand is the vice, it’s been frustrating for sure, I was reluctant about being a cuckold but as she says she is very vulptous, young and desired she should maximize her experience and pleasure now. She wants me to watch and be present as to ensure neither of us feels like it’s cheating, I do get a feeling that it’s unfair but she said that is what makes it hot in some ways, she found a guy she likes and wants to try with should I give this a try?
I'm neither for or against cuckolding. There is more than one way to live a happy life and no two people are going to agree.
Looking at this logically. She is your girlfriend, not wife. I am guessing no kids? From what you say, it certainly appears that she is going to have sex with other guys regardless of your decision to allow it. If you say no, she will eventually stray. If it were me and I was on the fence, I would tell her to go for it. You have nothing more to lose. If she hates it, you get her to herself. If she loves it and you are cool with it after the experience, then you get the girl and she has her sexual needs fulfilled and you as a cool boyfriend. If after the experience you realize it's not for you, you can quietly move on and try to find someone who will be happy with all of you.
I'm sure there will be some deep conversations and tough days ahead for you two. Try to keep an open mind, but protect yourself and what means the most to you. Good luck.
I agree with the above, try it out if it’s not for You move on chastity was a huge first step.
I’m 23 my girlfriend is 21. We are in college. She confessed to me recently that I do not satisfy her in bed because I am too small and she broached the idea of cuckolding. We’ve had many conversations and I love her I want her to be happy and satisfied. We started using a chastity cage so I could improve my oral skills and focus more on that, the one she picked out was a Barbie pink color the brand is the vice, it’s been frustrating for sure, I was reluctant about being a cuckold but as she says she is very vulptous, young and desired she should maximize her experience and pleasure now. She wants me to watch and be present as to ensure neither of us feels like it’s cheating, I do get a feeling that it’s unfair but she said that is what makes it hot in some ways, she found a guy she likes and wants to try with should I give this a try?
Bonjour Alex05,
Qu'entend-elle par trop petit et niveau durée ça donne quoi ?
Si tu trouves cela injuste, elle force ton consentement quelque part.
La Cage c'est son idée ?
Même si tu l'aimes, il y a fort à penser qu'elle tombera amoureuse de cet homme qui lui plaît !
Vous serez donc dans une relation à trois, ou tu seras soumis aux deux.
Si cette arrangement ne te convient pas,
Tu dois lui en parler, déjà la Cage, est une preuve de très grand amour de ta part.
Comment utilisez-vous la Cage ?
Continue tu d'avoir des rapports normaux avec ta petite amie, ou as tu interdiction de la pénétrer ?
Depuis combien de temps êtes vous ensemble ?
Demande Lui si elle accepterait de te regarder avoir un rapport sexuel normal avec une autre petite amie ?
Translation:
Hello Alex05,
What does she mean by too short, and what does that mean in terms of duration?
If you find it unfair, she's forcing your consent somewhere.
Was the Cage her idea?
Even if you love her, there's a good chance she'll fall in love with this man she likes!
So you'll be in a three-way relationship, where you'll be submissive to both of you.
If this arrangement doesn't suit you,
You need to talk to her about it; the Cage, for one, is a sign of great love on your part.
How do you use the Cage?
Do you continue to have normal sex with your girlfriend, or are you forbidden from penetrating her?
How long have you been together?
Ask her if she'd be willing to watch you have normal sex with another girlfriend?
Translation:
Hello Alex05,
What does she mean by too short, and what does that mean in terms of duration?
If you find it unfair, she's forcing your consent somewhere.
Was the Cage her idea?
Even if you love her, there's a good chance she'll fall in love with this man she likes!
So you'll be in a three-way relationship, where you'll be submissive to both of you.
If this arrangement doesn't suit you,
You need to talk to her about it; the Cage, for one, is a sign of great love on your part.
How do you use the Cage?
Do you continue to have normal sex with your girlfriend, or are you forbidden from penetrating her?
How long have you been together?
Ask her if she'd be willing to watch you have normal sex with another girlfriend?
From the way that you have written here, it doesn't really sound like you are fully consenting to this relationship. It may be worthwhile to get two or three sessions with a sex-therapist to explore your values, desires, consent, and boundaries. In the meantime, I find this forum to be very supportive. Be open, be honest, and ask your questions. Keep reading and exploring.
That being said, I think your openness and willingness are commendable. No doubt she is great and you are willing to do things for the relationship.
The cage was her idea but I’ve been fine with it I’ve been wearing it for a little while now. We do still have sex and she just says I’m not big enough I don’t pleasure her the way she has been before but we have a great connection. We’ve been together almost 2 years. And the cage is pink as I said the brand is the vice don’t know many guys who’d wear a pink chastity cage that can’t be escaped without the key. It gets pretty tight sometimes she was teasing me one night and I begged her to let me out bc I needed an orgasm so badly but she ended up just giving me a ruined orgasm in the cage and counted it towards my allowance. As forcuckolding wee discussed it she wouldn’t be going on big dates just hook ups and I’d watch. I couldn’t deal with a three way relationship on an emotional level.
Is your girlfriend the kind of woman who can have casual sex like a one-night stand, without developing feelings for the guy?
If she is, I'd say go for it (but play safe - he should either get tested or wrap it up, and she should have a Plan B or similar handy just in case.)
If she's not, this might be risky for your relationship as you mentioned you couldn't deal with a three-way relationship on an emotional level.
She’s had over. 25 partners so I’d say she can hook up without catching feelings.
I love this beginning - very curious to hear where it leads.
