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Hello,

Bart here, 49 year old married man from The Netherlands. I have been with my amazing wife for little over 25 years now. We have an amazing, loving relationship, real soul mates.

About 7 years ago my wife opened up to me, stating that she started to feel restless from the idea never to be able to experience the thrill of dating anymore. She didn't want to end our relationship or cheat on me, but at the same time she wanted to explore. But she immediately stated she couldn't live with the idea of swinging, she felt too jealous, even by the thought of me with another woman so she was stressed out.

I comforted her stating that I could live with the whole idea if it meant I could explore my submissive side. I also introduced her to the term cuckolding which we explored online over a few weeks. 

She then told me she wanted to start for real and we started a profile on a few sites. She found herself a nice guy and we arranged an introduction meeting. Since that evening we are a cuckold couple and are exploring a FLR type of marriage.

But it is difficult: vanilla life often gets us too preoccupied to work on the kink part and finding a reliable and good lover for her is difficult and thus frustrating. 

Why am I here? I love to talk online about kink and the cuckold and FLR lifestyle. Fetlife was my previous source for discussions, but that site had changed for the worse over the past years.