Hi, everyone, just joined. Male, 47, involved in my first real FLR. I've been dating my GF (38) for nearly a year, and we had "that talk" about four months ago. Since then we have slowly added FLR elements. This has involved her being in charge, me being naked when we are together, and some spanking. We are considering some of the items discussed on this site. I can say that overall I've been very happy in this relationship and with what we've been doing. We are heading toward engagement. A couple of weeks ago she brought up the idea of me having a vasectomy, and this is very important to her. Understandably she is concerned about pregnancy, and neither of us wishes to have children. But there are also clearly elements of dominance involved. I'm not sure what to think of all this, but I will be going to a consultation in two weeks. Has anyone dealt with something like this?
Not quite sure what you are asking. I've had a vasectomy, and other than sore balls for a few days, nothing changed. Or, are you talking about being required to get a vasectomy by what has become your Mistress?
The latter. Even though there is enough reason to justify it pragmatically, and she wouldn't have brought it up if that wasn't the case, she sees it as a matter of dominance and her ownership of my parts. It's really just a further step in what we've already been doing, but it's a permanent one. But it's just a consultation coming up, so I have time to figure it out.Â