My wife and I practice orgasm denial and orgasm ruination. She allows me to cum once every 35-45 days, always ruining my orgasm. Lately, she's started wanting me to eat my entire cum and not waste it. She thinks it's perfectly normal for a guy to eat his own cum constantly or to find out what it tastes like on other men. We're looking for like-minded individuals.
I agree 100%, I have had a turp surgery which was for enlarged prostate no cancer. However now I have dry orgasms which are actually unpleasant.
I agree about eating my own ejaculate, however there is none, pre cum only. I enjoy Chastity and have traded- exchanged the pleasure(non) of 10 seconds of orgasm for constant stimulation from chastity.
I'm with you fellas. My wife has zero intention of having me eat my own cum, for some reason. I think it's because she thinks it is gross and would be too humiliating a thing to have on our resume going forward, and that there would be regret. She's pretty adamant about her 'no', but I have told I would (like I even have a choice) if she wanted to. My feelings on it are similar to being spanked as punishment for poor behavior. I don't like getting spanked, while I'm getting spanked, because it hurts like hell. I absolutely LOVE that she spanks me and that I have no choice in the matter. Similarly, I have no innate desire to eat my own cum for the sake of doing. But I would absolutely LOVE being required to always do it as a price to pay for cumming, ruined or otherwise. Just my opinion on the matter.
@elkeshusband I feel the same way. I have evolved (see what I did there?) to preferring being denied, or at most, a ruined orgasm, because i much prefer the constant state of arousal to the 10 seconds of orgasm joy. That said, when my Wife locked me 24/7/365 (mostly) 18 months ago or so, she also permitted me to orgasm without permission if I was caged, and if she was fucking me. As such, I have evolved (there, I did it again) to behaving like a wanton slut in the hopes of getting her cock. Being able to cum with zero cock stimulation while being fucked doesn't happen a lot, but when it does ... it's fucking awesome.
That's absolutely phenomenal! I have to say that's exactly what I've been trying to get with my wife but I do mostly self-locking?
It almost feels like there's something absent, I know there's not really anything absent but the interaction is?
I'm like-minded and just a thought of a chance to get to orgasm or be edged a few times is extremely exhilarating!
However, my wife thinks it should be okay for me to orgasm kind of on her and my terms about every 7 weeks which is about 42 days LOL.
We had that on a calendar and it's a shared calendar, but it's not really played with very much? Adhere d to by her, she's very very vanilla is a way to keep a guy like me grounded, but we're trying to figure out where is our middle ground?
Every time we do it it seems like we're getting closer to that and that's what it feels like for me.
.I'm like-minded and just a thought of a chance to get to orgasm or be edged a few times is extremely exhilarating!
However, my wife thinks it should be okay for me to orgasm kind of on her and my terms about every 7 weeks which is about 42 days LOL.
We had that on a calendar and it's a shared calendar, but it's not really played with very much? Adhere d to by her, she's very very vanilla is a way to keep a guy like me grounded, but we're trying to figure out where is our middle ground?
Every time we do it it seems like we're getting closer to that and that's what it feels like for me.
I completely understand. I'm locked up most of the time, but it's harder to control myself not only when you're wearing a belt for a long time or when it's removed for, say, a day, but also because we're both naked at home. And when I see my wife naked in some kinky poses, it's incredibly satisfying. My genitals are constantly tense, and it turns us both on. But while I understand her requests for me to eat my own cum, I'm even more surprised by her desire for me to eat other men's cum. She finds it sexy and says it should be natural for a man to eat the same semen he's capable of producing. Do you think that should be encouraged?
Adding a photo of my wife.
When my wife makes me eat my own cum she calls it recycling. When her lover fucks her, he doesn’t use condoms and he always cums deep inside her. His big black cock is in her up to his balls. When he shoots his load in her as soon as he pulls out I lick and suck his cock clean, sometimes his balls ,I clean him first. Then I take my place between my wife’s legs and lick her thighs ,where ever there is cum I lick it up and I clean and eat her well fucked pussy she loves it that way. Master kisses and bites her neck and nipples at the same time and she has a wildly intense orgasm.
Wow! That's really awesome! Your wife is a redhead. She's got a beautiful body. Very light skin, a lot like my wife. My wife is a blonde German back tattoo. Also very pale skin. Super delicious pussy.
I wish that my wife would understand the feminine power that I gave her a long time ago, but she still has not quite embraced it. I stopped self-locking in my chastity cage because it just felt like more of a lonely place.
It should more than just a comforting place, in my headspace. I really desire the actual interaction of her act of taking that control away from me. Allowing it while using it to fuel the improvement of our relationship?
I know that sounds like a long way of saying I feel a bit Sorry for myself. I feel disconnected and not in a good place because of it. I have not self locked for almost 2 weeks now. Also, no porn, exercising, stretching, like crazy. Eating clean. I was utilizing the self lock method to keep me focused and to try not to sexualize my wife.
I enjoy the connections here and wish to return to my kink space, I just want to do it together, or it feels like a fail?
Anyone else here in the same situation?
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Hi, yes, we can chat. I don't know your full situation or how old your wife is. My celibacy or abstinence is, of course, tied to her, but I don't think it's strange if I focus on myself. I think it's sometimes useful for myself, not just for my girlfriend. On the other hand, I'm speaking from experience. We have rituals that help keep our passion alive. For example, one mandatory ritual I perform every day is performing cunnilingus on my wife, consistently once or twice a day. Not only does this bring us closer and develop a special routine, but it also allows us to be closer, even when she doesn't want to have fun. Another thing: at home, we are almost always naked. And while I have a restriction like a belt, my wife always has her body free. Perhaps you should also try some mandatory rituals.
Yes I would love to chat with others. I have done chastity for a few years. Then we stopped because we got a full time boyfriend who has lived with us for a couple of years and we all had to adjust and learn how to live with each other. We all get a long great. And I bought a company out of town and have been traveling between there and home. She does ask me to clean her up sometimes. And she worn the key to the cage the whole time I was caged. Now that we all really trust each other I would enjoy going back down this road some more. And like subhubphx. With the spanking and cum eating. I enjoy seeing her empowered. By telling me to Wear the cage or clean up the lovers cum but I also wonder if we will get to the point of cleaning off Troy's cock. Or her wanting to wear her key or pegging me in front of him. Or him taking me. Me and Troy are like best friends but I have clean up several times. But we are mostly both fucking her and she really enjoys him large cock. But I would love it to be her saying that she wants me too instead of me asking I am trying to drop hints. However I pushed to hard in the beginning and I am trying not to make that mistake again. 43 male(lee) wife (Alysia) 41 and boyfriend (Troy) 41.
You're probably lucky, you can satisfy your wife together. Unfortunately, I'm limited in this, and if she has sex with another man, I can only be present and watch, but I can't participate in the sex itself. The most I can do is help him insert his penis into her vagina. She doesn't feed me her friend's sperm, but she really wants me to learn to drink it, but I have to come to this conclusion myself. For now, I only eat mine. We don't have the friendly relationship we have with him that you have, and everything is much simpler. He comes over, sometimes stays overnight. He fucks her until he's exhausted, cums wherever he wants, and she doesn't wipe or wash off the sperm. Which turns me on like crazy, but I haven't decided to try it yet. I guess I need to be a little bolder.
I think and really awesome that we're having this conversation and most of the time you wouldn't be able to have this conversation! I love the idea that she makes you eat your own sperm and you won't want to do it, I get to taste mine but my wife is not really kind of that into it but I really would love for her to kind of tell me to do it right! That's definitely next level when you're there and she is having sex and you just have to watch, a little bit of participation would go a long ways I think? What's your thoughts?
Also super hot. It'd be awesome if you're I don't know wife would want to. I don't know control another man's cock cage? Mine's electronic, so there is a certain amount of trust that goes into it. Pictures are super hot so who's the redhead?
See if she can take some pictures of you actually eating your own load... That would be super hot