My wife and I practice orgasm denial and orgasm ruination. She allows me to cum once every 35-45 days, always ruining my orgasm. Lately, she's started wanting me to eat my entire cum and not waste it. She thinks it's perfectly normal for a guy to eat his own cum constantly or to find out what it tastes like on other men. We're looking for like-minded individuals.
I agree 100%, I have had a turp surgery which was for enlarged prostate no cancer. However now I have dry orgasms which are actually unpleasant.
I agree about eating my own ejaculate, however there is none, pre cum only. I enjoy Chastity and have traded- exchanged the pleasure(non) of 10 seconds of orgasm for constant stimulation from chastity.
I'm with you fellas. My wife has zero intention of having me eat my own cum, for some reason. I think it's because she thinks it is gross and would be too humiliating a thing to have on our resume going forward, and that there would be regret. She's pretty adamant about her 'no', but I have told I would (like I even have a choice) if she wanted to. My feelings on it are similar to being spanked as punishment for poor behavior. I don't like getting spanked, while I'm getting spanked, because it hurts like hell. I absolutely LOVE that she spanks me and that I have no choice in the matter. Similarly, I have no innate desire to eat my own cum for the sake of doing. But I would absolutely LOVE being required to always do it as a price to pay for cumming, ruined or otherwise. Just my opinion on the matter.
@elkeshusband I feel the same way. I have evolved (see what I did there?) to preferring being denied, or at most, a ruined orgasm, because i much prefer the constant state of arousal to the 10 seconds of orgasm joy. That said, when my Wife locked me 24/7/365 (mostly) 18 months ago or so, she also permitted me to orgasm without permission if I was caged, and if she was fucking me. As such, I have evolved (there, I did it again) to behaving like a wanton slut in the hopes of getting her cock. Being able to cum with zero cock stimulation while being fucked doesn't happen a lot, but when it does ... it's fucking awesome.
That's absolutely phenomenal! I have to say that's exactly what I've been trying to get with my wife but I do mostly self-locking?
It almost feels like there's something absent, I know there's not really anything absent but the interaction is?
I'm like-minded and just a thought of a chance to get to orgasm or be edged a few times is extremely exhilarating!
However, my wife thinks it should be okay for me to orgasm kind of on her and my terms about every 7 weeks which is about 42 days LOL.
We had that on a calendar and it's a shared calendar, but it's not really played with very much? Adhere d to by her, she's very very vanilla is a way to keep a guy like me grounded, but we're trying to figure out where is our middle ground?
Every time we do it it seems like we're getting closer to that and that's what it feels like for me.