Picked. I have issues with the pictures here. Whenever I open one up and I close it it takes me all the way out of the program... Anyway, I would love to continue the conversation. As far as that stuff goes to me, it's just a fluid. It's not a big deal. Even when it's the bulls. It's more about the experience of being able to serve. And being a part. And I'm excited when she gets to have a good experience. I'm excited that we get to share the experiences together. And to me, that's the most important part. I would be happy for her. Have been the experience even without me. But I prefer to be there because I like seeing the smile on her face. All the other stuff is just icing on the cake. Or really icing anywhere else you want to put it?. I hope that I get to try some of those other things. I know it means everybody being more comfortable in their role. Would love to talk to somebody who has had to service the bull.. or clean them up?. And get them ready. Or like the gentleman, mentioned earlier and helping him slide in. I'm never actually touched anyone else's but mine. I bet it would have to feel pretty submissive to feel one bigger and stronger.. guiding it. Look forward to some of those experiences. Really like the ideal of the wife making the choice to do it. Or ask him me to do it. I don't want to sound like I'm too eager. But definitely willing.