Pegging has always turned me on, but my wife and I have briefly chatted about it, after of all things, it was a topic on a netflix show we watched months ago….she basically said it ain’t happening.
However, we also are starting a new part of our lives sexually and dynamically, by entering chastity..so her mind could possibly change.
How did you as couples go down the path? Did your ladies have reservations, if so, what were they?
Did you shop together after deciding to try it?
It seems some ladies really find it fun and exciting, did you just love it from the get go or take some time getting used to the idea of it and warm up slowly?
- Sarah
You should totally go for it, I dont know how it is from Rayans perspective but for me it was described as nothing less of amazing. In our case, it was me who opened the topic with Rayan, he was more open minded about it than I thought he would be. He wasnt excited about it but was open to trying. No, we didnt shop together, I did all the shopping for both of us because i thought that poor him would be having a rough time as it is, so asking him help me buy the very dildo that would fuck him in the ass would be too much. I definitely loved it from the very first moment I tried putting on the strapon dildos, I even bought multiple dildos with multiple functions, like ranging from so small to big enough we will need some time to have him get used to it. Had ones that are flat, and ones that had veins like surface, had ones with vibrator options, and ones with white cum like thing stored in it to let it out on or in him when I am done. I admit i got carried away buying them, was so excited for it. Since it was our first time i only used 2, the smallest one and the ordinary one thats slightly bigger.
I think my wife is totally put off by anything anal, lol. I’m not even sure why. She may just find it gross.
I think I am more into the power exchange part of it all, than anything else. The idea of her having thar power is crazy erotic.
As a guy who was completely neutral about it, its one experience i am so glad i got to have. It can be a bit odd at first but you will end up wondering how you didnt have it in your life before, not to mention it will change your perspective on many things in your relationship with your lady, to the better of course. and i know you probably wanted a reply from sarah, dont worry will have her reply when she has free time
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it was a topic on a netflix show we watched months ago….
What show was that? The only time I ever saw anything on TV about it was in the first Deadpool movie. That was brave of Marvel!
So I’m a dude but I do have experience bring a kink to someone that they were hesitant to try. The thing that always work for me is to have a no pressure conversation where you are only interested in the things that she doesn’t like about. Don’t offer any difference or counter any of her arguments. Just literally ask what she doesn’t like about it and then listen. Almost every time if done this the person realizes they really don’t know why and is willing to try it by the end of the conversation
My wife knows I am painfully shy about my sexual wants and needs, so she will often ask me, “so, is there anything you want to tell me about?” While she is edging me, knowing that I will be very vulnerable and very turned on. I ordered our first strap on harness from Amazon and she saw it (she opens all my packages). Needless to say, next edging session she had the truth out of me.
She had already been pleasuring me anally with her fingers and a hand-held dildo so I guess you could say we gradually worked up to it.
I think my case is not typical at all. I cannot say that this is a normal FLR relationship.
How did we get started? I was 26 years old. I survived childhood trauma. I was raped at a young age. I was treated for 10 years by the best psychiatrists. Couldn't get rid of the desire for "Full Subjugation". Not a man's subjugation. Only Woman. Not CNC. No. Complete transfer of power. Finally found a Dominantrix practitioner. I attended her sessions for several years. Every time I begged her to marry me. In 1994, she agreed to become my Wife and Only Mistress. At our wedding, she told my parents that she would not be faithful to me for a single minute. But, for me, my Goddess remains the only woman in the whole world. I love her and adore her. Long 36 years. To serve my Goddess is the only joy and purpose in my life. I'm happy. I am protected by her Power.
I think my case is not typical at all. I cannot say that this is a normal FLR relationship.
How did we get started? I was 26 years old. I survived childhood trauma. I was raped at a young age. I was treated for 10 years by the best psychiatrists. Couldn't get rid of the desire for "Full Subjugation". Not a man's subjugation. Only Woman. Not CNC. No. Complete transfer of power. Finally found a Dominantrix practitioner. I attended her sessions for several years. Every time I begged her to marry me. In 1994, she agreed to become my Wife and Only Mistress. At our wedding, she told my parents that she would not be faithful to me for a single minute. But, for me, my Goddess remains the only woman in the whole world. I love her and adore her. Long 36 years. To serve my Goddess is the only joy and purpose in my life. I'm happy. I am protected by her Power.
Karin pegged me on our second date (my first time being pegged, She had previously taken my "regular" virginity on our first date as well) and I knew right then I would be Hers forever.
We have been together for over 12 years and now married for five. She has always been in charge of our (open) relationship.
I too was in a similar position as your wife. The Chasity lifestyle defiantly opening up the door to trying new things. Slowing adding int butt play was a bog one. The gradual lead up to pegging was essential. Butt plugs, then prostate massagers, then strap on. Makes it more comfortable in exploring for both parties! Hope you all are having fun with all these new discoveries and pleasures!
Questions for the guys; Have you been called a 'good girl' and told 'such (that's) a 'good girl' while being pegged? If so, how did that make you feel emotionally?
Questions for the gals; Have you ever called your guy a 'good girl' and told him you're 'such (that's) a 'good girl' while pegging him? Should I as a guy when that time comes allow that to flow naturally from my woman?
As a submissive I would love to integrate both pegging and role-play. I really want to be vulnerable and loved like this.
Ladies - you should have lots of lovers. You should be able to fuck any cock you want at any time you want then ride hubby face while you share the details. You want a better husband then turn your hubby into a submissive sissy-fem crossdresser bimale cuckold that craves pleasing you. Here is a plan to make this happen:
(1) When you ride his cock - put your finger in his mouth and tell him to suck - soon you will be telling him to suck your finger like a cock. You need to plan to suck his cock 4 to 7 times a week for 6 weeks. Suck his cock and finger his ass (have lube ready) - tell him if he want his cock to be sucked then expect to be fingered. After you suck him off be sure to give him a snowball kiss each time.
Every night - tell him to go get ready cause you want to suck his cock. He will have his cock and balls and ass nice and clean and his ass lubed. Then suck his cock while you finger his ass - talk smut to him - on your ass opens like a pussy - from now-on your ass will be a sissy-pussy. Then always talk about his sissy-pussy.
Make him admit that he likes you sucking his cock while you finger his sissy-pussy. Second week you can reach up and play with his tits while you suck his cock and tell him you are going to suck his tits like you suck a cock. Bounce your head on his tit when you suck his tit. Soon you will be telling him to suck your tit like a cock - make him fantasize about sucking your tit like a cock - then sucking a cock cause you told him to suck a cock.
Every night you suck his cock and finger his sissy-pussy - very soon you can tell his body will submit to you and his sissy-pussy will open for you - craving you to finger him like a pussy.
(2) snowball kisses: when you suck off his cock and you have cum in your mouth then kiss him and share some cum with him. Tell him if he likes his cock sucked then he better get used to tasting cum. Good training for him to get where he will take cum from you. Someday you may be sucking a cock in front of him and then share a snowball kiss. Good fantasy to make him think about you sucking a cock in front of him - soon he will be sucking a cock with you.
(3) After a week of you sucking his cock while you finger his sissy-pussy - his body will be craving you. Craving you to suck his cock and finger his sissy-pussy. His sissy-pussy will be responding like a pussy. Open for you - pushing himself to your finger - second week add more lube and add more fingers. Talk smut to him always. Oh you like a second finger in your sissy-pussy. Then add a third finger. Do you want me to use a dildo on your sissy-pussy - make him ask for it. Someday I am going to invite a man here with a big cock and have him fuck your sissy-pussy while I watch. He will agree to anything while you are sucking his cock with three fingers in his sissy-pussy. Yes you can use a toy on him on the third week but make him ask for it.
(4) While you suck his tits - make him talk to you - make him ask you to keep sucking his tits - males will do anything while you are stroking his cock and sucking his cock. I am going to suck your tits and make your tits larger - are you ok with this - just in three weeks your tits are alot larger now. Soon you will be wearing a bra to bed. Fourth week you know you control him - you can use breast pump or use a standard cock pump. Take the rubber off and put the hard plastic tub on his tits and pump up. You can do this on your tits also. You have to keep fingering his sissy-pussy everynight or if you want tease him that are not going to suck his cock tonight if he has not be a good gurl.
(5) By now you know you can control him and he will do most anything you say. Just tell him you laid out clothes on the bed for him to wear - panties bra sundress and 2in heels - need to be wide not to hurt his toes. That you expect him to wear a nitie to bed every night and panties. include bra if you wish. Time to do some make up also. You do like me sucking your cock every night - say it back to me - good gurl.
(6) you keep sucking his cock and fingering his sissy-pussy - soon you will be fucking him with a toy then a larger toy. Oh they have the very thin toys that pump up so it does not hurt at all - then go to be bigger toy. Tell him time to go shopping for a strapon cock cause you want to fuck him like a woman and you want him to feel like a woman being fucked.
(7) his sissy-pussy will respond like a pussy now - give him just a little more than he can handle then let him adjust to the size then push it in a little deeper - do that over and over to make him take more and more toy cock. Then go to a larger toy - make him ask for a larger toy - make him say yes he needs more cock. When you fuck him with a strapon - do you want him to enjoy it or do you want to make him hurt alittle?
(8) a pussy or a sissy-pussy can handle a bigger toy cock then a real cock or a strapon cock - when you are pushing against his body and pushing your strapon cock into his sissy-pussy --- it feels so real and so exciting and so wonderful.
Never just start with a strapon cock - like a woman - always work up to it. After you have fucked him about 30 times then you can tell him -- someday I am going to just bend you over - put some lube on your sissy-pussy and fuck you - make you take my strapon cock and more than you can handle without getting you loosen up -- you want that - make him say it back to you.
(9) it is exciting to think of hubby wearing a bra and panties and sundress and 2in heels to do the housework.
After six weeks of sucking his cock and fingering his sissy-pussy every night -- you will have him so hooked and willing to do anything you want. You can say - get naked and on your knees and lick my pussy till I cum and he will do it.
Let him know you want him to ask and beg to be fingered more and more and to be fucked more and more with a toy. That you want him to ask to be fucked by you with a strapon cock.
Remind him that he agreed to do anything you wanted to him and you promised him more and more sex and that his cock would be happier if he says yes to everything you want.
(10) Once you make him suck a cock and be fucked by a cock - he will want more and more cock but you need to push him to do it more and more --- he will not feel like he can ask for it like he can with you using a toy on him.
Make him feel safe and loved and make him ask for more cock - make him say that he likes sucking cocks and that he likes being fucked like a woman. That he likes cum in his mouth and in his sissy-pussy.
Do you want him to suck cocks for you and take cocks in his sissy-pussy??? Do you want to be able to fuck any cock you want 1on1 or 3way? Then have hubby lick your pussy clean while you share the details with him.
The key wording now is - hubby you understand you need to follow my orders to get your cock sucked.
I am Robbie in Norman, Oklahoma - I have photos on my profile page on fetlife - email me your past sex and kinky fantasies to robbiewillsucku at gm ail -- I also chat on google-chat.
2025, Hello I am Robbie in Norman, Oklahoma, a bimale with nice tits that need to be sucked - I like hot chat and chat on gogle-chat as robbiewillsucku at gm ail. I want to find a top-dom bimale or bifemale or bi-couple that can host in the mornings during the week. Males - If you can host in the mornings - I will suck your cock 1on1 or 3way and if you want to fuck my sissy-pussy you need to be have lube and condoms. Yes I will suck and play with other sub sissies. I love sucking female's tits and I like being pegged by a woman with a strapon cock. Tell me more, show me more, where are you located, what do you like or want to try, how will you play with me?
I'll attempt to answer your questions about our experience below.
How did you as couples go down the path? Did your ladies have reservations, if so, what were they?
We started down this path when my wife started touching me around the lower thigh and then around my perineum and anus. She enjoys sucking my balls and she would also lick there. Over time, her fingers wondered to my anus and started touching me and I loved it. She inserted them several different times. One time she massaged my prostate and I leaked out cum. It was hot. As she was doing this, I started to open up to her about long ago fantasies of what it would be like to be "taken" "fucked" "pegged" if you will. Her one reservation was it being "dirty" but she was open to the idea after seeing how turned on she could make me with her finger.
Did you shop together after deciding to try it?
After we decided to try it we went to a sex shop together and purchased a strap on with a small, think black dildo. We also purchased a product I don't know what to call it but it's a dildo for me and has a vibrator for her clit and goes inside her vagina. We've used both of these.
It seems some ladies really find it fun and exciting, did you just love it from the get go or take some time getting used to the idea of it and warm up slowly?
The first time my wife pegged me she yelled out "who's the man now?" "I'm in control." Just yesterday she was taking off of work cause she wasn't feeling well. She texted me after I had brought her coffee "I could peg you even though I'm not feeling great, why waste a Monday at home." Her text immediately sent me into subspace and doing all sorts of things for her. She is enthusiastic about this and I would recommend others incorporating pegging into your relationship.
I was in a master slave relationship with a black master and I was fucked on regular basis. I am married to a dominant women now and she doesn’t go for all the fake dick stuff but she did shove a dil-doe up my butt a couple times.