Hi K Lynn, 

Let it flow naturally.  I haven't been called a "good girl" but "good boy" by my wife when she pegs me.  It's hot.  I like it.  I would not be opposed to being called a "good girl." Especially if we did some reverse roleplaying with her dressed as a man and me as a woman.  I say go for it.  Be honest with your wife about your desires.  It takes vulnerability, but every time I've been honest and vulnerable with my wife she has surprised me.  She's a gift. 

I got started with smbd when I was a 17 year old virgin two weeks after high school graduation. I met a 40 year old black dominant Master and well I became his slave. I know he isolated me and some people told me it was like borderline abuse but I didn’t think of him that wayI loved him. I needed the discipline that he provided, well I was a young stupid unruly kid so that leather strap was what I needed . Master John had a military background everything in his home had its place and Master definitely put me in my place. My Master is gay, so my pleasure can only come from Masters beautiful black cock and my complete obedience to him. He owned me for a little over 8 wonderful months and when he broke up with me I was heart broken. The silver lining was that I met my dominant wife soon after that she just took over where master left off. My Mistress only dates black men and she is very strict almost the same situation except I’m submissive to my wife’s lovers now. So that’s how it started for me I was lucky, I didn’t have the problems trying to find a dominant woman or man they found me.