Hello everyone,
I have a serious and personal question regarding the long-term emotional and relationship effects of engaging in cuckolding / hotwifing dynamics and I hope Emma see this and write a article. Sorry for my Grammer, English is not my mother language.
For those of you who have experience with this dynamic (especially wives / hotwives):
After engaging in the fantasy, did you notice any change in your desire to have children with your primary partner / husband?
Does the experience ever create a feeling of distance, emotional complexity, or a shift in the perception of the husband as the biological father figure, which might reduce the desire for "their" children?
I am looking for real-life experiences and insights on how such a profound sexual dynamic interacts with the foundational decision of co-parenting and marriage.
Your English is great. In my experience, cuckolding doesn’t automatically change any desires. I personally can see it deepened our emotional connection and made our family dynamic stronger. The caregiving role he takes on often feels more like a family member than a traditional lover, which can actually reinforce the idea of building a family together.
Every couple is different. For me, it’s actually made me value Kev’s stability and commitment even more, which strengthens my desire for him. However the emotional complexity is real because seeing a lover as a family member isn't necessarily compatible and may drive her toward the cuckold experiences to get her carnal needs met. It's the whole dual mating thing and I don't personally think it is unhealthy but it might drive her to be reliant on the bull's presence to satiate those needs. If you’re considering this path, I’d say keep communication open and check in often.
My dominant wife told me she doesn’t want children she doesn’t want the responsibility. We live the femdom lifestyle. We do a lot smbd activities in our home. My wife said if she ever did want to have a baby the father would most definitely be a black man.
When my wife said yes to my proposal 15years ago, she only agreed with certain terms.
1) That I give her a daughter
2) That from the moment of her pregnancy I have no further right having sex with her
3) That I have to wear a small restrictive chastity cage as a proof of being faithful.
4) That she has all the rights and freedom to have sex with whoever she wants with my full knowledge and support.
Our daughter is now 13.
OK that is simply awesome congrats you are very fortunateWhen my wife said yes to my proposal 15years ago, she only agreed with certain terms.
1) That I give her a daughter
2) That from the moment of her pregnancy I have no further right having sex with her
3) That I have to wear a small restrictive chastity cage as a proof of being faithful.
4) That she has all the rights and freedom to have sex with whoever she wants with my full knowledge and support.
Our daughter is now 13.
My wife and I spent a lot of time discussing how the dynamics our relationship would work and she made it very clear she did not want children with me. Our marriage has always been a FLR/cuckold situation and even though I’ve been pussy free since our wedding I’ve had a vasectomy in order there would be no accidents.
@magzine2 Because she likely wants to be provided for in a way that strange men that she wants to fuck can't or won't. She'll put up with him and being with someone she doesn't respect or even like in exchange for the safety and security of being provided for. Usually, that's how it goes.
Jesus, this is supposed to be sexy, not a death sentence. You guys are taking this way too seriously. BTW, any woman who wanted to anchor a man to a daughter, then deny him, is an oxygen thief. Fuck that.