Hello everyone,
I have a serious and personal question regarding the long-term emotional and relationship effects of engaging in cuckolding / hotwifing dynamics and I hope Emma see this and write a article. Sorry for my Grammer, English is not my mother language.
For those of you who have experience with this dynamic (especially wives / hotwives):
After engaging in the fantasy, did you notice any change in your desire to have children with your primary partner / husband?
Does the experience ever create a feeling of distance, emotional complexity, or a shift in the perception of the husband as the biological father figure, which might reduce the desire for "their" children?
I am looking for real-life experiences and insights on how such a profound sexual dynamic interacts with the foundational decision of co-parenting and marriage.
Your English is great. In my experience, cuckolding doesn’t automatically change any desires. I personally can see it deepened our emotional connection and made our family dynamic stronger. The caregiving role he takes on often feels more like a family member than a traditional lover, which can actually reinforce the idea of building a family together.
Every couple is different. For me, it’s actually made me value Kev’s stability and commitment even more, which strengthens my desire for him. However the emotional complexity is real because seeing a lover as a family member isn't necessarily compatible and may drive her toward the cuckold experiences to get her carnal needs met. It's the whole dual mating thing and I don't personally think it is unhealthy but it might drive her to be reliant on the bull's presence to satiate those needs. If you’re considering this path, I’d say keep communication open and check in often.