The best parts of locking him up!

Posted by: @therachel

Some are into pink cages and panties for their guy. I want a handsome man under my key and the shiny metal cage makes him so handsome. Especially when he is nude.

This is great! To many, chastity is about feminization but to some, the cage is one of the most masculine things a man can do for his partner.

Happy Agony, Love it!

Posted by: @therachel

Playing with myself while he sits across the room and watches me. Locked.

THIS is one of my most mostest, bestest, favoritest things ever!

Posted by: @evolvingyourman_ivcr4j

Posted by: @therachel

Some are into pink cages and panties for their guy. I want a handsome man under my key and the shiny metal cage makes him so handsome. Especially when he is nude.

This is great! To many, chastity is about feminization but to some, the cage is one of the most masculine things a man can do for his partner.

Happy Agony, Love it!

Yeah, my wife doesn't want a girly man ... pretty much anything feminine in a man is a huge turn-off for her.

She likes that I listen well now, but that's the only "feminine" that she's willing to accept in me.

Some are into pink cages and panties for their guy. I want a handsome man under my key and the shiny metal cage makes him so handsome. Especially when he is nude.

 

Totally agree with this sentiment. I'm afraid that the whole sissy/feminisation things isn't for me either. I love seeing my mans steel cage tightly wrapped around his manhood - ohh it gives me goose bumps just thinking about it.

@mstara I agree that feminization and chastity are two completely different things.

With him watching you play with yourself while he is locked and watching porn together while he is locked and him getting all worked up, hot and bothered, knowing he can't do anything about it because he is locked.  Wouldn't that be a good time to give him a good hard pegging?

Posted by: @mstara

Some are into pink cages and panties for their guy. I want a handsome man under my key and the shiny metal cage makes him so handsome. Especially when he is nude.

 

Totally agree with this sentiment. I'm afraid that the whole sissy/feminisation things isn't for me either. I love seeing my mans steel cage tightly wrapped around his manhood - ohh it gives me goose bumps just thinking about it.

We're not into all that sissy stuff either and I just like the feel and look of a metal cage. MyWife would also like a handsome man under her key but life can be a bummer and she's stuck with me.

Another thing that I forgot is fitness! When he is caged, I expect him to work some of his extra energy on fitness especially butt and ab toning workouts. There are a million of them on youtube. Locking is a huge part of our relationship so he finds plenty of extra energy for his workouts. As a result, he has developed quite the handsome and toned butt which sends me headlong into the pegging mindset.

I'd peg that!

Posted by: @therachel

 

I'd peg that!

Holy hell. That butt!

Here are a few more! Most of this is theater and I am slowly but surely learning to be a sexy performer with him. It is so very fucking rewarding because I see the agony and frustration on his face. I know that agony and frustration is what makes his hormones race and give him the boost of physical love and reassurance he needs from me. It is all about the mind fuckery!

1. Play with his cage and comment about how his skin pushes through the bars or the holes in the plastic. Ask if it is uncomfortable and offer to stop if it is too uncomfortable. Even if it is uncomfortable he won't ever ask you to stop.
2. Make him sit on the side of the bed and model a few different panties for him. Make him explain what he likes about them and what he likes about your body. Make him use his words to describe what he likes. Optional lap dance if he does a good job.
3. Masturbate in front of him or beside him. I even like to have him stand and watch. Once you finish, cuddle and explain in great detail how good the orgasm felt.
4. If he is giving you a massage (obviously he will be!), direct him to gently massage your pussy. Give some exaggerated moans and say something about wishing he was unlocked right now. 
5. Compliment his cage, tell him that he looks cute and give him compliments. I think Emma said that if you make him feel good about wearing the cage it will encourage him to love being caged more.
6. Kneeling in front of him while he is locked with my butt facing him and saying things like "I bet you wish you weren't locked right now. The only thing between you, me and a good time is my little key. Your poor little thing all locked up!" It doesn't really matter what you say, just something about him being unable to do anything about his situation and how much you want him but refusing to unlock him.
7. Sitting across from him with his legs spread, holding the key in my hands and clinking it against his cage but not unlocking it. Not tonight sweetie. This is just a tease. Not sorry lover!
8. Rub his body, moan, breathe your warm breath in his ear. Say "I want you so badly right now but you are allll locked up." Rub his body and act like you are frustrated that he isn't able to have sex because he is locked up.
9. Make him put on your strapon (over his cage) and give the dildo a handjob. I bet you wish this was you, don't you. Is yours this long? No? Is yours this thick? No? Pretend that this is your big cock that I am stroking. Let's pretend that yours is this big, this hard. This thick. Does that feel good? Give a brief handjob to the strapon and make him pretend that it is his own. He can watch but his body feels nothing.
10. Give him a butt plug to wear, especially on nights where you plan to give him a randy pegging.
11. Touch yourself, put your finger to his lips so he can smell you. Tell him that you need some of his sweet kisses and push his head downstairs.
12. Literally any playing with his cage is a tease. Say anything you want. Ask to see it. Run your fingernails up the front, around the side.
13. Sit on him, straddle him just behind his cage so he can look down and see his caged cock with your naked body right behind him. Say things about how much you wish he wasn't locked so he can be inside you. You can even jingle the key for him.
14. Tell him to clean his cage very well, give him a blowjob without removing him front the cage. You really don't need to even put it in your mouth since he can't feel the pressure, your warm breath will make him bulge with excitement.
15. Put your hand on his cage and ask him to play with your tits, say they need attention and need to be squeezed or nipples played with. All the while feeling his cage get tighter. When it gets tight, stop.
16. Text him early in the day, promise sex or a blowjob. When the time comes, tell him that you want to have sex but there is one big problem. He is locked up. You can't fuck a locked cock. You promised sex but you didn't say anything about unlocking him. Tease him for a few minutes and ultimately leave him locked and frustrated.
17. Wear your strapon and make him give you a handjob. Tell him to show you how he likes it.
18. Unlock him and stroke a few times before telling him that's all he gets and make him lock himself back up.
19. Explain that he is locked because he is too small. Bigger dicks wouldn't fit into a cage like this. Only do this if he is aroused by this sort of thing.
20. Let him play with the key on your necklace while you play with his cage.
21. Talk about other men (or women!) that you find sexy and the attributes about them that are different than him. 
22. Tell him that you urgently need to get off, prioritize your orgasm or masturbation and tell him how badly you needed it. He clearly needs it worse but don't acknowledge that.
23. Call him just to tell him that you love him and remind him that you are keeping his key safe for him.
24. Allow him out of his cage, let him fuck a pocket pussy or fleshlight. If he starts to get close, tell him to stop and lock him back up. 
25. Leave him in the cage, play with a dildo in the pocket pussy/fleshlight and explain in detail how good it must feel. 

Most of it is just play acting, be over the top with your acting when he is horny it really builds up his frustration and anxiety.

These are excellent. I have one to add.

Last night I put my harness on and laid down on the couch with a nice warm blanket. It is cold this time of year! About twenty minutes later, Kev sat down beside me and started touching me, soon to realize that I was wearing my harness. I spread my legs and pivoted to my back so it was standing straight up. I looked him in the eye and said "I'm the one with the cock in this family." We both tried to keep a straight face for a moment but I couldn't hold it. I love sexual play because it brings us so much closer.

Hello!  I am new here, but have been reading a great deal of postings by women who find that locking the guy up is a turn on.  As a result I am curious...hence my name,lol...as to why that has zero appeal to me.  I am also not interested in feminization for a guy, and that's actually a big turn off for me.  I have tried to see why it would be interesting and feel like a total failure at understanding it because none of the things being said seem relevant to me.  I have always had a high sex drive and often initiated sex with a guy I found attractive so locking his anatomy up seems more of a punishment for me than a turn on.  Are there any studies done about the women who don't find it interesting, and I doubt I am the only one...if so, oh well?  Are there any women here who don't feel it has helped their relationship? Thank you everybody!

@evolvingyourman_ivcr4j 

Ha! My wife's favourite retort if she thinks I'm getting a bit above myself is, "remember who wears the pubes in this house".

Posted by: @mscurious

Hello!  I am new here, but have been reading a great deal of postings by women who find that locking the guy up is a turn on.  As a result I am curious...hence my name,lol...as to why that has zero appeal to me.  I am also not interested in feminization for a guy, and that's actually a big turn off for me.  I have tried to see why it would be interesting and feel like a total failure at understanding it because none of the things being said seem relevant to me.  I have always had a high sex drive and often initiated sex with a guy I found attractive so locking his anatomy up seems more of a punishment for me than a turn on.  Are there any studies done about the women who don't find it interesting, and I doubt I am the only one...if so, oh well?  Are there any women here who don't feel it has helped their relationship? Thank you everybody!

Hi! Actually it more about his behavior while he is locked than it is about the act of locking him. I like to have sex at least two or three times a week but I don't need my fiancé to cum. In fact, he currently is only allowed one orgasm a week! This really helps build that NRE (New Relationship Energy), changes the way he treats you and takes the emotional side of the relationship to a whole new level.

If feeling like you have full control and power over his sexuality doesn't do it for you or the cage is a complete turn-off for you then it may not be your thing and that is perfectly fine.