Hi. I'm looking for a dominant woman for a female led relationship. Do any of you think there are dating personals websites that can facilitate this? Or not? If so, which ones? Otherwise, how does a professional, single male get into one discreetly? Thanks.
This is the million dollar question.
So, you could try VenusConnections however it didn't work for me.
Honestly I have been looking for 10 years and not even come close.
It's going to be difficult to set out to find someone to play a role for you forever.
If you are looking for someone for a long-term relationship, start at the start. Find someone you will be compatible with who enjoys you. If you are aroused by confident, assertive women, then you can restrict your search to confident , assertive women.
So don't look anywhere niche or unusual at all. If you want to use a website, use a regular dating website. Just don't put "I want a female led relationship" on your profile, because it will look like you want a service provider not a partner.
There are plenty of female led relationships that happen by accident!
Thank you very much all.
There are plenty of female led relationships that happen by accident!
This one nails it but from the female perspective I think I'd start off with "looking for a more dominant partner" or "looking for a more dominant female" rather than saying you want a female led relationship. Ultimately you don't want someone playing a role, you want someone who feels comfortable in a dominant role rather than someone who wants to be your femdom fantasy. If you find someone who likes to be dominant then you can - with open communication eventually discuss how far she wants to take that dominant role. It may not be as far as your fantasy has taken you but that's ok because relationships are about compromise.
Over time, as you get more comfortable with each other then you may explore further - especially if you don't pressure her to do so. Share erotic stories and ease her into where you are. Men often make the mistake of expecting women to be fully aware and ready for a female led relationship and scare someone off who may have ultimately been very happy in that sort of dynamic. But yeah. @dancuckold has it right
Spot on. I think, if you detect dominant tendencies, those will likely come out with encouragement and mutual trust. Good luck
thanks, all!
Hey I have an update to this topic because I had luck on seeking.com
At first I was skeptical, but I decided to join it and see what is out there.
There is some girls on there who are just full time prostitutes trying to get every dollar out there.
However if you are patient enough and keep looking you can find a girl who is doing it as a side hustle for a thrill.
I am talking to a girl on there who has never heard the word cuckold, but I started the conversation saying I like girls who like to cheat on me and wow it got results! I will post more if our relationship progresses.
I met my wife on Fetlife but putting up a profile and everything involved with that site is a job in itself. You might also try Feeld, it’s a great site for “nontraditional” dating and meeting people.