20 years ago my wife was cuckolding me with one of my friends and coworkers, she was always kind of an unable to control it slut.  Couple of years of faithful wife, with her boring sigma husband, the an affair with a selfish ALPHA for awhile, then she was good for awhile.  But this time she had made me get het a Hotwife anklet, then some chaps and leather vest to go motorcycling.  Everyone knew she was openly fucking him.  He was her direct supervisor.  They were going to be fired for it and she called me crying asking why to do.  I told her to throw him under the bus.  Say while the sex with her direct supervisor was consensual, she also felt like it was a requirement.   

she didn’t do what I told her and tried to protect her Bull.  They were both fired.  

For me it was this sense that there was more to my girlfriend's (now wife) sexual desires than she shared or was known to me -- that she wanted more, or would want more if she knew she could have it. And that filled me with so much angst, jealousy, and curiosity, the idea would pop into my mind and I couldn't get it out, and I slowly accepted it as a fantasy I could not avoid thinking about, and eventually I shared that with her. (And she reacted enthusiastically and ran with it from there.)  It's the idea that there is more than is known -- a secret -- and you can find out more about the secret, but there's a catch: you'll have to give up your pride in order to know it.

Me and my wife separated for a few months.  I had to teach myself to be attracted to because of her cuckolding.  As we got back together our communication may have gotten actually worse

I discovered it very young first in a video then stories.  I was always struck by things like the reversal of gender roles, voyeurism, and the erotic inequality of it.  But, I'm someone who has always craved devotion to my partners and them accepting that from me feels like a reciprocal gift in a way.  I feared for many years that if I didn't live up to the definition of what a man is "supposed" to be, that there was something wrong with me and I was broken.  But, I also never felt like my energy was more alpha or dominant.  When I tried to be, it pulled darker sides out of me.  Controlling, conniving, and just toxic overall.  I couldn't communicate with partners until my late 30's.  Even having conversations about what turned me on felt like a failure on my part.  Now, I feel free to be totally open and it's really the only way that a relationship can thrive.

Most definitely the emotional aspect. The gut wrenching sight of her close embracing her lover in missionary position making love. Feeling the angst of their deep, soft kissing. It is almost too much.

Most females need more than one cock to stay happy.  To have a steady husband that loves her so much that he will do anything for her including licking other cum from her pussy and sucking his cock hard again so he can fuck your wife again.

More then once I have been called a cuckold even though me and my wife disagree with that statement....... My wife has been called a cuckcake or whatever..... We disagree.... 

We encountered lots of cuckolds in swinger groups..... 

So we try to understand...... 

First it was swingers had to understand that 

Then poly relationships ok that was new 

Now cuckolding.... Ok well this is new let's see what this is about 

Cuck here with very limited experience, but the draw for me is being able to claim you have a extremely hot gf/wife and I can prove it because of the line up of guys waiting in the train on her lol

Oh shit puss the real eye opener was finding out my buddy was a cuckold sub didn't have a wife and asked me and my wife to fill those needs without us really understanding what was happening.......