Do you see cuckolding as humiliation, devotion, or empowerment—or a mix of all three?
Cuckolding is all three things for sure. Your wife holds the power to go outside your marriage for sexual satisfaction.My wife rejects me for another man humiliation. You swallow your pride you accept your emasculation your devoted to your wife and her happiness at any level your devotion has no limits.
Per me umiliazione e per entrambi emancipazione. Non la vedo come devozione.
Translation:
For me, it's humiliation, and for both of them, emancipation. I don't see it as devotion.
In my dynamic, I'd say a mix of devotion and empowerment. And, by empowerment, I'd say it's liberating to feel free to live a more authentic life where I"m free to be my true sexual self with my partner and she is free to explore all that she is.
So I was talking to a friend and she and I did a hole walk down what is a cuckold.... Is it the one way sex outside the relationship nope ...... How about sub/Dom aspect nope ..... humiliation nope ... Any one of these or all of these could be present and it still not be a cuckold relationship....... So what is it we had to think when does a cuckolding relationship end ...... As soon as the couple decide to stop or one decided to stop .... As soon as one decided to stop using that term or just stop everything the hole thing stops
So as far as we can tell cuckolding relationships or just cuckolding in general is a mindset you have to identify with
Now do understand she is a hotwife in-between having a cuckold she understands and has taken that label and made it hers so she's had a long time to think about this and what it all means
I see it as humiliation. Nothing more. Some people like that. Some people like it until they die, while others realize that they don't. By then, it's not something that can be taken back.
Emma, I see it as all three. Empowerment stands out for our relationship as my wife really does yearn for the ability to express herself and be worshipped in a safe place with my presence, support and devotion. It goes without saying, adding SPH and other forms into cuckolding means there is a form of humiliation and this requires honesty between both. Cuckolding is not about hurting, but about fulfilling ones desires whilst being empowered, worshipped and exertion power which has humiliation to heighten the experience for both.
Do you see cuckolding as humiliation, devotion, or empowerment—or a mix of all three?
From the way I see it, humiliation is a core element of cuckolding. That isn’t necessarily a bad thing, some men (and women) genuinely enjoy it in a consensual, erotic way. But pretending humiliation isn’t part of the dynamic feels unrealistic in most cases.
From a woman’s perspective, I can also see cuckolding as a form of empowerment. The dynamic is lopsided in her favor, which can be a huge confidence boost. It puts her in a privileged position where she can safely explore other options (experiment, compare, and choose what kind of partner or dynamic suits her needs) without giving her primary partner the same freedom. And based on some of the blog posts I’ve read here, it seems that for older women, cuckolding can flip the traditional script where they’re often seen as “less desirable” as they age. In that sense, it becomes a way for her to reclaim or amplify her desirability.
When it comes to cuckolding as devotion, I personally have a hard time imagining that dynamic working in a healthy, 24/7 way. If you treat cuckolding like a drug: it can be exciting, fun, and intense for people who enjoy pushing boundaries, but there has to be a limit. If the high goes on for too long, you risk crossing a point where the relationship takes permanent damage.
From the way I see it, humiliation is a core element of cuckolding. That isn’t necessarily a bad thing, some men (and women) genuinely enjoy it in a consensual, erotic way. But pretending humiliation isn’t part of the dynamic feels unrealistic in most cases.
Well said, and yes, some people genuinely enjoy it in a consensual way. But for how long? Forever? If the enjoyment doesn't last until they die, there will be negative feelings because of the humiliation. Regret and anger toward the person doing the humiliating is inevitable, even though it was "consensual", because the words and the actions cannot be unheard and undone. Moral of the story ... if you like to be humiliated now, you'd better be damn sure you'll like it forever, or your relationship with the one humiliating you will be over.
The same goes for the following for precisely the same reason.
When it comes to cuckolding as devotion, I personally have a hard time imagining that dynamic working in a healthy, 24/7 way. If you treat cuckolding like a drug: it can be exciting, fun, and intense for people who enjoy pushing boundaries, but there has to be a limit. If the high goes on for too long, you risk crossing a point where the relationship takes permanent damage.
I've always felt that cuckolding and the obvious humiliation that comes with it is like playing with fire on a razor's edge. When you do that, there's a pretty good chance you'll get cut and burned ... even if you promised, or were promised, that wouldn't happen.
Devotion and empowerment.
My wife feels powerful, very desired, free, supported, loved. She knows I am fully invested in her happiness.
She knows I am turned on my this kink of ours. She knows that when she is with her lover, I get to see her fulfilled and express her sexuality from a perspective I wouldn't have if it was me having sex with her.
There's no humiliation aspect to our dynamic per se. I do get off on feeling rejected (although I know she is as devoted to me as I am to her). I know this rejection that arouses me is for our sex life in the here & now, not for the entirety of our marriage. There's no wish from her lover to completely take over. She loves feeling naughty when she goes to him, and for that she needs to feel I am her centre. I don't feel at all inferior to her lover except in my knowledge he can give her sexual experiences that I can't.
it means the marriage is over,finished.
Dan, tu peux être aussi son Amant, il suffit de te projeter mentalement, de visionner, comme si une part de TOI, une autre facette, plus cérébrale prennait le contrôle de par l'excitation de la reconquête, la compétition des spermes. Ton épouse veut tout, sa dévotion et son amour réclame la reconquête de Celui pour qui son cœur bât à l'unisson, Toi, Dan, elle te veux plein de désir pour elle. Quand elle revient vers TOI, elle te choisie à nouveau, elle veut être là Muse, de ses deux Mâles, l'un est un petit Ami léger, comme un amour d'étudiant, l'autre est son avenir, son Mari TOI, elle aime être convoitée, désirée, adorée, par Celui qui la laisse libre de lui revenir vers Lui, de le choisir à nouveau, encore et toujours. Dom est juste un Sexe Friends, un Sexe Toy, une certaine vision du Sexe Libre, d'être partagée par son Mari pour être sa Muse, sa Déesse, sa Maîtresse, t'elle une Licorne libertine nymphomane avide de Sexe, d'épanouissement et de bonheur. Les deux ensembles démultiplie le plaisir grâce aux Mari partageur !