I have at many times in my life been a big part of the kink community and sometimes we all have little get togethers place where people meet and greet 

Well around here there is a group of older ladies 50s 60s and up called the dragons ball .... Dom's swingers hotwifes you name it but in all cases they are strong independent woman who have seen it all ..... They are very exclusive.... You only get to sit with them by invitation.... And if they see me no matter what I'm doing they demand I sit with them for a round or two .... Hey free drinks 🍷🍻🍷 I'm not complaining 

But the stories I have herd the information life experience that has been shared with me ....  I could only scratch the surface... 

The biggest things I have been told I'll show here 

1 do nothing you can not ender yourself.... 

2 no one is a island if you need help ask someone 

3 kinks are fun and all but if that's all you got one day you'll wake up to a cold bed ( that one hits hard coming from a older woman with a tear in her eye )

4 you can undo any thing if your willing two put in ten times the work to make it happen..... If your not well why did you do it ? 

5 always even in a Dom Sub situation put in whatever work is needed to make sure everyone comes out with a smile on there face 😁 

6 at the end of it all your still a person worthy of love and respect whether a Dom Sub switch swinger woman man or whatever it is you are 

Just thought maybe that might help some people have a epic day 😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎