A younger bull here just a few years into the lifestyle. I was recently invited by another bull to a group outing with 6 swinging couples and noticed some of the wives directing their cuckold husbands to perform bisex on each other.Â
When chatting with two of the wives near the end of the night, one confided that the practice started as a means of providing more involvement for the cucks when some or all of the bulls did not want them participating (even fluffing) and they were consigned to watching from the sidelines. The second wife, however, elaborated that as time passed, some of the cucks started doing it spontaneously and, as a consequence, she began dialing back her group participation out of concern her husband might develop an emotional attachment with one specific cuck and turn completely gay.Â
Was curious if these practices (and/or concerns) were prevalent with others.
I've never heard of this but assuming everything is consensual, I think this could be a unique dynamic.
I have heard of it but when I did it wasn't presented as a positive thing it was more of a forced we make them or they can only more like a non consensual wayÂ
It always seemed at the time I heard it like abusive or derogatory so I wanted nothing to do with it or hear about it 😕Â
I have heard of it but when I did it wasn't presented as a positive thing it was more of a forced we make them or they can only more like a non consensual wayÂ
It always seemed at the time I heard it like abusive or derogatory so I wanted nothing to do with it or hear about it 😕Â
If something is forced, derogatory or abusive ... it's no fucking bueno!
One of the "communication" mistakes that couples make is NOT establishing hard limits and soft limits. Once those are established, nobody, not even the Mistress, can push the other past the hard limits. Period! If the soft limit comes into play, the parties should have previously agreed to stop, discuss, and decide what, if anything, happens next, depending on the circumstances. Â
ANYTHING that hasn't been discussed as hard or soft limits is on the table. Of course, the "limits list" can and should be evolving depending on the direction and growth the couple takes. Â
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I don't have knowledge about this at cuck events but it could make sense as an demonstration of enforcing power; to make a (a straight) man commit 'humiliating' (possibly in his eyes) sex acts with another submissive male, with women either finding it amusing or the act so beneath them that they don't even given their hubbies the satisfaction of paying attention as they commit the act.
My bf has found in the stripper business that the lines of hetero/homo blur a lot and it can be used as a form of power enforcement or relief. He told me about a group event and there was a pretty boy new guy, a uni student and a bisexual older stripper kept joking that the new boy had to defer to the senior guy, and 'service' him. They kept joking about it and the lad kept getting defensive saying he was straight. But surprisingly after the show, my bf found the lad on his knees, giving the older veteran a blow job. My bf was convinced the lad would have rather not, and he looked so humiliated, but it was a power dynamic, as way of the other guy to enforce on him his inferior place in the pecking order.
I would imagine a hubby being told suddenly to submit to sex acts with another submissive cuck, purely because his wife is either amused by it, or just wants him out of the way and preoccupied, could have a powerful effect on a cuckold psyche.Â
I would imagine a hubby being told suddenly to submit to sex acts with another submissive cuck, purely because his wife is either amused by it, or just wants him out of the way and preoccupied, could have a powerful effect on a cuckold psyche.Â
Yup, sure could ... either positively or negatively. As I mentioned earlier, it's either an already negotiated hard limit or it isn't.