I wanted to set out my thoughts on the topic of sexual inequality and the benefits of accepting it as a positive force.
As a man it’s perfectly obvious to me and I think anyone else who has lived a little, that women are the superior sex.i could list the ways in which this is true but I think readers of this site will know them anyway.
I’m more interested here in the consequence of this fact. The differential rights and duties that it leads to for each sex and the benefits of these for both.
First, the woman’s needs come first, always. Our duty is to understand and fulfil our women’s sexual needs before we consider our own. If she chooses to indulge ours then that is her choice and hers alone.
In terms of fidelity, we owe her ours completely and she may choose to offer us hers, but that is her prerogative.
As a more sophisticated being her needs are more complex than we can understand and often more intense than we can satisfy. She must be freer to meet those needs with other men who are more capable then we are if she wishes. We have no such right and must accept this willingly.
When it comes to masturbation, she has the right to total privacy if she wants it and total autonomy. We have no such rights. We masturbate with her permission or not at all. This may be enforced with a cage but that should not be necessary. If she allows it then she may insist on being present or not. We have no right to privacy from her.
Next, nudity. A woman fully owns her own dignity and modesty. Seeing all or part of her body naked is a privilege that is hers to grant or withhold. Men’s right to modesty on the other hand is also granted or withheld by the woman. She decides whether and when you may be clothed or naked. If she doesn’t do so explicitly this simply means she is choosing not to exercise that control. But we must recognise that it belongs to her if she wishes to use it.
Last, the woman is right. Always. Men, no matter how smart you think you are , your mind will be at peace once you accept that she is smarter. You know it’s true, but maybe you haven’t admitted it to yourself yet. Accept it, she has a level of intelligence, sensitivity and judgement that we can’t match. So stop trying to compete. We can have an opinion, we can make valid points and contributions but when it comes to a decision or disagreement then she wins, she decides.
I’ve found these principles to lead to a more peaceful mind and a happier life with my amazing woman.
What’s your experience?
Beautifully written. No ambiguity in the roles.
I especially like the part about the woman's right to privacy while the men have none. He is stripped of the ability to hide any part of himself from her.
Right. We are lower creatures than women, so as a man in a relationship with a woman your body belongs to her but not the other way around.
Agreed, but not because we are lower creatures, but because we (I) have chosen to accept the submissive role in the relationship. IMHORight. We are lower creatures than women, so as a man in a relationship with a woman your body belongs to her but not the other way around.
