I’m married 55 and masturbate about 3 times a week as a stress reliever and easier than initiating sex. Which seems to be like tuning all the knobs aligning to the universe:)

I have mentioned this to my wife. She doesn’t care if I masturbate once a week, but then asks why I don’t initiate sex 🙂

I tried a cage for awhile, she didn’t like it because it limited her access (which pre cage rarely happened)

So, I’m back testing out cages. I bought a timed lock box and managing my cage time. I have been locking up once she has gone to sleep (incase there was any play time) I set the lock box for the time she returns from work and unlock when she gets home (incase of play time) and no cage durning the weekend. She doesn’t know I’m doing this, I haven’t masturbate since, I just would like if she held me accountable (which will be a conversation I’m sure once she discovers the cage)

I just want to stop my masturbation because it takes away the intimacy with my wife. When locked it’s weird I see her beauty, look for ways to make her life easier. 

My plan is to wait until she allows me a release (which at times she will ask if I have masturbated (maybe once a month) I’m sure everyone has a pre cage story as we are trying to figure this all out 🙂