I've written a number of comments here suggesting how a male in a FLR and/or a cuckolded male should behave, but in reality, I think both are really stupid.Â
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Despite its appealing thrill, being a subservient and/or cuckolded male will greatly increase the chances of ending his relationship with his wife or G/F, through either divorce or a breakup.Â
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Behind all the flowery language and romantic inuendo's in these forums, there is no way a cuckolded and or subservient male in a FLR will escape feeling abandoned, degraded, and disrespected.
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Ask any group of women what they want in a man, and most will tell you they want a confident, decisive man that will take the lead in the relationship - and that's exactly what they mean. The only thing FLR's and cuckolding does is tear down his confidence, make him indecisive, and weak.
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To the men here (and I use that term loosely) If you want to go down this path, that's your privilege, I may even make a few helpful comments regarding that, but degrading yourself is not a path to personal growth, nor will it in any way make you a better person.Â
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To the women here (what few there are) I don't think less of you for wanting to be in a FLR but remember: If you want to be in charge, be prepared to remain in charge. Despite suggestions to the contrary, you can't turn authority on and off like a light switch.Â
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I genuinely enjoy reading the forums but thought it would be unethical to be less than honest about what I really think about FLR's and cuckolding.
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I welcome any comments any of you may have - even the negative ones. 🙂 Â
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I'm afraid that I find your comments about FLR's to be very shortsighted. However, I will concede that if your opinion of FLR's is based on femdom porn then I can understand your ignorance. It's true that kink can be a driver for some FLR's, but don't let that lead you to think that all FLR's exist to support kinky sexual practices. Quite frankly, how a husband and wife decide to live their life together is their business. My wife and I will be celebrating our 43rd anniversary in a couple of months. I love her with all my heart. I also do most of the housework and tasks that she doesn't want to do. My wife controls all the finances even though I'm a CPA. I'm fine with that. It's our business.
Finally, I do want to add that I'm definitely not a weak, timid little man. When I met my wife I was a 6'6" rugby playing guy. I enjoyed sport and having a beer after a game with the guys. I will say that it's true that I was most uncomfortable with "locker room" talk when the subject was women. I've always had respect for women , and I truly loathed the misogynistic alpha male ego.
An FLR works for us, and although we've never discussed who's the boss with our friends and family, I'm sure that most who know us understand that my little wife is the boss. Quite frankly, we don't care what anyone thinks. Love is all that matters!
williamportor, you have always been quite the conversation starter in support of FLRs and all the parts that come with them. It is quite the surprise to see your opinion pull a hard 180 turn away from your prior posts.
You brought up some very interesting topics that statistically are accurate, yet there are those outliers that do not conform to the majority and many of them reside here.
bill_abc congratulations to your wife and yourself for 43 years of marriage. We will be on 41 this October. What might work for your relationship, might not work for ours. Who Fing cares. Each relationship works in a different way. All that matters is you love each other. You laugh with each other. You be nice to each other. Marriage has its ups and downs. 43 years you guys must be doing something right.