@subhubphx Good points. Ideally, it would be nice to socialize a bit before making such a huge commitment. Now that we can travel, maybe a meet up in...

@allabouther Sounds like we may be in the same place, my lady makes open references, I even wear a necklace with a lock on it. I know at least one gi...

@evolvingyourman_ivcr4j Emma, see my response below, the resort we were at near Cancun did not have any restrictions like that. More than a few of t...

So, in the interest of research on possible destinations, we went to Desire Riviera Maya Perl Resort, it is a clothing optional resort near Cancun, Me...

That’s a really good way to act out a bunch of fantasies — gives you a chance to gage your partners reaction. Also, that might be a way to scratch tha...

Our friend, allabouther, has some great posts related to this topic, I think you might find them helpful. Perhaps if your husband is willing to do thi...

I think there are some good books available, personally, I like Sharyn Ferns and Rebecca Lawson among many others. For well written and offbeat stori...

Great topic , great discussion. We are doing our part and have shared our lifestyle choices with a few friends. From what I can tell, a very positiv...

Speedy recovery and best wishes

@restrainedlove I just reread Emma's two blogs Joys of Teasing and Not All Fun and Games, great suggestion -- lots of great ideas.

I'm generally skeptical of long posts (grumpy old man syndrome), your story was a pleasant surprise and a very nice read. Post more.