@allabouther Which book? (Link?)

Does your wife understand that you enjoy humiliation? That might be a good topic to explain to her, since most women find it weird and off-putting unt...

Both the caging and denial seem to be increasing. She's just getting more confident that her decision is exactly what I want and need. I am so thankfu...

That's pretty funny that a lot of the people asking the question are decades younger -- but awesome that you're starting now! The first and most imp...

Well said!

@mickg93 ❤️ You were brave and loving to let her know how you care about her health.

My wife is vanilla. Even the idea of Loctober would be a huge turn-off for her. Our life is much simpler: I'm chaste, except when she wants it otherwi...

Not a problem. You're over-thinking this. Make sure you size your cage appropriately. Specifically: It should not be any longer than you are at yo...

Are you honest with your wife?

Something about that night ? ... my wife couldn't sleep and woke up in the middle of the night (might have been the same night) and ended up riding me...

There is so much truth in this.

How long had you gone without an orgasm? Sometimes, the longer you go, the less the "drop" ...

This is a surprisingly hard question to answer, because I don't think that my answers would be consistent from day to day. Probably my biggest turn-...

I've been working on losing weight for a few months now. I'm down a stone, which is simultaneously excellent (yay! losing weight!) and disappointing (...

Wisdom is just what we call "having made lots of mistakes and learned from a few of them" ?