Here is a list of things that I have used myself and recommend.

A Plastic/Resin Cage

  • Lots of colors to choose from
  • Inexpensive
  • Two sizes (Short/Long)
  • Multiple sizes of testicle rings included

Penis Lotion

  • Helps him put things away nicely even if he is still aroused after sex
  • Prevents chafing inside the cage
  • Increases sensitivity
  • Moisturizes skin


Important note about numbing lube, this should not be used for pegging, this is meant for vaginal sex to prevent or delay his ejaculation. Don’t use numbing lube for anal, if there is pain then you are doing something wrong. Pay attention to how his body feels and communicate.


  • No weird smell
  • Lasts long enough
  • Water based
  • Inexpensive

Pegging Harness

  • COMFY! Tip: Order one size smaller than you think you will need
  • No awkward straps to try and manage or ruin the mood
  • Not cheap but very inexpensive compared to some of the other options.
  • Black/Grey also available
  • Durable

Cuter Pegging Harness

  • I haven’t bought this one because it is too expensive but it looks soooo cute. Anyone want to buy me one? 🙂


  • What good is a harness without something to harness to you?
  • Ripples for more sensation
  • Probably not perfect for a beginner, go for a little one like this.
  • gives us a discount so don’t forget to use the code “EVOLVED” for 10% off

I can recommend other things that I’ve used, just let me know what you would like to see in the forum!


Also a quick disclaimer that the site gets a buck or two for items purchased from these links. Thanks for supporting this site and I can answer any questions about these products since I have actually used them unless otherwise noted. Except the cages of course but I have qualified secondhand feedback about how they work.