This is one of a few blogs that were published by Yoga Girl at her website at http://flr101.blogspot.com. This site is now offline but all credit goes to her.
He's responding to the Sticking to the Program article I wrote.
Wow, yum, yipes.
I think both what lucky husband but I also wonder what is the quality of consent that you can get from a lizard brain. Does the effect of repeated stimulation, repeat edging and semen retention effectively render a Man intoxicated and perhaps for longer that his erection lasts after sex. 1 year ago there was an entry called, “His Week Off.” I understood that entry to be an affirmation of the virtue and value of retention and male submission. He got what he asked for and in the end, after a week he discovered it wasn’t what he wanted. But is that what it showed. The week off came after a 2 week period of more intensive preclimax stimulation. Did yoga husband every reach a level place in which he could take stock in himself and his situation and truly make a decision from an empowered or self possessed position or is what was described really just a man recovering from a neurochemical maelstrom. While men and women are different imagine that genders of voices in the companion inventory are reversed and imagine a man who is the breadwinner having just had sex with his financially dependent wife, and the sex was profoundly asymmetric and she was unsatisfied and to keep her in line he reminded her of her dependence on his salary for food and shelter I think many would find that scene disconcerting, regardless of the quality of the orgasm she had once a week. Do any men in these relationships suffer lowered self esteem when the preorgasmic haze clears?
JD
"He got what he asked for and in the end, after a week he discovered it wasn’t what he wanted. But is that what it showed. The week off came after a 2 week period of more intensive preclimax stimulation. Did yoga husband every reach a level place in which he could take stock in himself and his situation and truly make a decision from an empowered or self possessed position or is what was described really just a man recovering from a neurochemical maelstrom"
My husband is not in a constant state of delirium. After sex, he is back to a normal thinking man in a 2-3 hours. My husband has had years of ejaculation on demand. He remembers what life was like in that state. I think this comes down to what is mans true nature. You’ll often hear me say that as man retains, his true nature is revealed to him. Is his depleted state his true nature? Is constantly masturbating and ejaculating with no energy left for his mate the way in nature. After all in the animal kingdom it’s a rare animal that can ejaculate without the female. They are driven to court and penetrate a mate. Of course they ejaculate every time they have intercourse, but the female is only receptive at selective times so there is quite a bit of retention going out there. At least they must find a mate and don’t sit in the woods masturbating by themselves except for primates. I maintain my husband’s vitality and essence by insisting on retention and eliminating his masturbation habit essentially returning him to the state that nature intended. And in that state, he courts me until I'm receptive and allow penetration. Consequently, he is in a state where he loves, cherishes, and adores me much of the time. When he was depleted with ejaculation on demand, that state didn’t exist. I feel that depletion from masturbation is not man’s natural state. And that’s the problem with many men in our culture. Combine that with the availability and ability to view novel females that never existed before in the history of man, and our culture is in crisis.
Are we doomed to be a culture of grass eaters - a term used to describe the Japan phenomenon where men have lost interest in engaging in finding a girlfriend or sexual partner. They are becoming so prevalent that it’s effecting Japan's birthrate. Men are becoming less interested in being in relationships and even touching a real woman. Are they still sexual? You bet, where else would they channel their sexual energy? They sit in front of a screen and masturbate looking at one novel female after another. It’s much less dramatic with my husband, but he was certainly less interested in me when he was a regular masturbater. I can see how grass eaters have become an issue in Japan. My husband now craves to be with a real woman all the time with retention. I submit basically that depletion is not man’s natural state, but retention is. People can compare and see what they prefer.…
Boy do I ever miss Yoga Girl.