Hi everyone, first post of 2019! I had a request to write about one of the times that I shared my favorite relationship secret with one of my friends. For the sake of this story, let's call her... Lucy. So Lucy and I were talking and she was going on about how her husband was boring in bed, she was losing the spark, he was lazy around the house and with the kids, you know the drill. I was starting to grow weary of her complaints about a man who is probably perfectly capable of being her ideal husband so I decided it was a good time to tell her. I started with the sentence "I've got an idea that might help but you'll need to be open minded...". After I said it, I realized that it was probably not the right way to start the conversation since she looked at me as if I was going to suggest a threesome or sell her Amway or something equally horrible.
I did have her full attention and took a breath and said ok... So you know how a man is basically controlled by his penis?
Lucy cut me off and said I know all he wants to do is have sex even though our relationship isn't even good right now.
I tried again and said, yeah exactly. So not to side with him or anything but that isn't really his fault, his hormones are telling him that sex needs to happen in order for things to be good again. In order to bring a level of normalcy back to your relationship, sex has to be there.
Rather annoyed, she said ok so you want me to have sex with him and everything goes back to normal for him?
Quite the contrary I said. Her eyes squinted a bit and you could see the confusion on her face. She went from mildly annoyed to very interested in about two seconds. …
Any update on Lucy and Ryan? It would be awesome to see a guest post from Lucy.
We are having dinner this weekend, I’ll try and get some juicy details out of her. Guest post is an interesting idea too.
Any news from her ?
Yes, I’ve got some great details. Things are going very well for them, I just need to write finish typing it up and have her read through it. 🙂
Excited to read!
Yes to the guest post. As well? Perhaps she might tell one of her lady friends? Building a movement.
Man who respects himself and his woman will retains to improve relationship,return passion and courtship. You did a good job Emma to help your friend to make her marriage successful and happier. When woman is in charge of man’s orgasm, he evolves in his best version, he want to make her happy and satisfied,she is his priority.
Looking for news how are they doing.
If the benefits of chastity were shared among womon! Relationships would be much better. The focus would be entirely on her. They would have the authority, attention and more.
As a submissive male. I want to provide this dynamic to my partner. Yes chastity and so much more needs to be utilized. To keep me laser focused.
I so enjoyed this writing. We men DO want to please our partners. Semen retention and chastity are wonderful tools to use. To motivate men into pleasing their partner. I think if more women shared this successful relationship dynamic. Relationships would not get stale.
Nice to read this again, I’ve been following you for about 2 years but only the last few months on Twitter, so I see the old posts rotated and go back to them. (I just opened a new kink related profile there (M_PowerYou)
It’s great to see Chastity & Orgasm control (and FLR although I know you don’t define yourself as that) being shared and taught Woman to Woman, growing organically. Curious if you are active in any groups in your area, a munch or kink event or now that you’re dating if you’ve been to any lifestyle events. As someone already well informed and experienced, you’d be a very welcome mentor. I have been involved & volunteered for local groups and it’s a great feeling to help others learn and benefit from this, just as you did with your friend in this post. I’ve just engaged with some real life organizations that do online education and real events and hope to meet a new partner for my next Female Led Relationship, hopefully for life.
Thanks again for all you do here Emma!
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