Let’s dive into the world of cuckolding and explore a fun, intimate way to create that thrilling dynamic without needing a third person in the bedroom. Whether you’re new to cuckolding or looking for a fresh way to spice things up, this is a powerful, erotic method to explore with just your husband and a little imagination.
The secret? A penis extender sleeve, a little role-play, and a whole lot of teasing.
Before we get into the how, let’s talk about why this method works. Cuckolding, in its traditional form, usually involves the husband watching or knowing his wife is being satisfied by another man (often referred to as “the bull”), and it can stir up all sorts of intense emotions—jealousy, excitement, humiliation, even deep submission. But for many couples, the idea of involving a third person isn’t feasible or desirable.
That’s where the beauty of self-cuckolding comes in. By using a penis extender sleeve, we can recreate the thrill of having a more powerful, “better” lover right there in the bedroom, with just the two of us. It’s safe, intimate, and extremely personal, all while fulfilling the same deep-rooted desires that make cuckolding so appealing.
Ok some times my wife has toys for her own roleplay….. What can some times throw me for a loop is when she reaches for a small one and asks me to play with her with this one pretend to be this person
No humiliation at all on our end just roleplay
Different strokes for different fokes 😁
We have a variation of a sleeve. I wear a strap-on harness and insert whatever lover (dildo) she wants at that moment. We’ve used sleeves before, but they were wonky.
Mistress K. has always controlled my orgasms, of course. She used to allow me to have 3-4 full orgasms per year. That number has reduced to 1-2 per year ever since she decided that my chastity cage would be 24/7/365 (mostly). Still, she never wanted to sacrifice being fucked really well, so she began having me wear the strap-on harness. She has a variety of dildos she will choose when we do this, and we call them her boyfriends. This is our standard method of lovemaking, and she absolutely loves it because she always gets a good long fucking with a larger-than-me cock that leaves her completely spent when we are done while also maintaining her desire to deny me an orgasm. Also, since being full-time caged, she has said that if I am able to orgasm while caged and without stimulating my caged cock, I am allowed to without permission. It’s happened a few times, but not often.
I guess you could say that I am technically cucked by her boyfriends that she keeps in the sex drawer.
So yeah, we do this but not to simulate a cuck experience (although we often do roleplay that way), but rather as a practicable way for her to get the pleasure she wants while keeping me primarily orgasm free. And certainly without any of the humiliation nonsense mentioned in the blog. She has zero interest in humiliating me, and I’m thankful for that.
The only times my cock is allowed inside her is when she wants to allow me to enter her and just fuck her until I cum, without having to ask permission, although I still do. That usually happens on Christmas morning. The other time I’m allowed inside her is for soaking, which is something I love. A lot.
It works for us.
Ok so my wife has given me the ok to reveal or new find out
My wife had a cuckold not me but one of our friends wanted a femdom
How it would work he would come over clean the house make dinner served wine 🍷
He would then be allowed to play with himself as he watched us have sex if we couldn’t… I wasn’t home she was at that time of the month .. she would put on a porn she made for him
If he was a good boy and didn’t finish she would finish him with hand job boob job or with pegging his choice
If he was a bad boy he got punished spanking paddle or flogger
At the time me and my wife never thought of that as cuckolding we are still not shere ….. Definitely femdom….
But cuckolding 🤔
Hmmm, interesting concept. I think Mistress K. taking on another sub/slave would be something I could get behind and support. Oh the possibilities.
Like I sead I just don’t know if it’s cuckolding 🤔….. I ended up on a FaceTime with my wife and friend Dawn….. For about 3 hours
And omg 😳 all the rabbit holes of things those two talked about… But in the end no clear answer to that particular question
More questions and rabbit holes for me to jump down and explore…. Pluss a point I had two tearful 😢 woman explaining there fears with me and her husband explaining we are not going anywhere
What a night I think 🤔 this is probably going to happen more often
I hear ya, but how important is it to identify it as cuckolding or not? It is what it is, and I think it would be hot (and acceptable) for my Wife to take on another sub/slave to serve her alongside me. There, I said it! *smile
Omg 😳 more rabbit holes question would you be Sub to the second sub or would you be Dom …. Would you both be equal subs …. Would there be a higher ark to be followed……. 🤔
It seems we just love to run down rabbit holes. Ha ha. Good questions, though, and the answer to each, of course, would be entirely up to my wife, but if it were up to me, I would NOT be sub to the other new sub, but maybe I might like it if Mistress K. put me in a Dom position above him or her. I’m not sure how that would look, but it’s fun to think about. I guess my baseline preference would be to be equal. I’m not sure what you mean by higher arc.
Before you start all this, you might consider restraining his hands. If he’s been locked in a chastity cage, and is desperate for an orgasm, he might just “take the matter in hand” and get himself off before you get a chance to play. Desperate guys do desperate things.
His hands shouldn’t have to be restrained. He should have the self-restraint necessary to not do it. My Wife made it very easy for me to understand … any unauthorized touching means it’s over. All of it. Much more effective than restraints in my opinion.
His hands shouldn’t have to be restrained.
Well – You’re entitled to your opinion I suppose.
Well … I appreciate that.
Oh wow we absolutely love this thank you Emma! I have just ordered a sleeve, my Queen is really excited. So, unlocked my cock isnt too small at 16cm, so I have ordered a large sleeve, at 23cm. My cock is now locked and totally ruined and reduced to nothing,,,,, I am hoping that I can wear the big dick sleeve over the chastity device, to humiliate me even more. I will let you know how it goes!
If you have the energy, pegging him is a wonderful way of reclaiming after “self-cucking”. Emotions can be raw after wearing the sleeve and relocking and pegging can break through any remaining social conditioning and male stubbornness, allowing him to experience a more feminine full body orgasm which is not centered on his penis.
After all, there’s no physical reason why all men cannot experience non-penile focused orgasms if they overcome their limiting social conditioning to embrace the submissive vulnerability that heals unconscious fears and anxieties. It’s truly a beautiful sight to witness the moment of complete surrender as arousal and complete vulnerability opens the pathway to this new pleasure. You can literally see the moment of letting-go to drift down the dizzying river of emotions and sensations while feeling safely anchored by your nurturing control over his body and emotions. Drifting on a raft down a warm river on a summer day and spinning more and more out of control while remaining euphorically emotionally open. Joyful tears are not unusual. Truly life changing.
The negative aspects of the male orgasm are hugely reduced when orgasm is achieved from anal stimulation as prolactin is not released by a discharge of prostrate fluid like it would from a standard penile based semen ejaculation. The lack of prolactin also prevents feelings of sexual satiation. The male can experience the more submissive full body orgasm alongside a potent cocktail of dopamine and pair-bonding oxytocin.exploding in their brains They will beg for more.
This is excellent Kim!
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