When I picked up The Ethical Slut by Janet Hardy, I expected a good read, but I didn’t know it would completely open my mind to new ways of loving, living, and embracing the kind of confidence I need to be the best version of myself—for myself and my husband, Kev. As someone navigating a female-led relationship and an open marriage, The Ethical Slut resonated with me deeply, especially around female confidence, non-monogamy, and freedom from shame.
To be completely transparent, I did read this book years ago at the beginning of my ENM journey with Kev and I like it but I had very little context to apply it to at that time. Today I'm still no expert despite having a blog where I write my thoughts down, but I do have some experiences and time in the lifestyle to relate to the book. A re-read was exactly what I needed to refresh my understanding of the book and whether you’re exploring open relationships, questioning monogamy, or just trying to build a better relationship with yourself, Hardy’s book is the ultimate, no-shame guide for anyone looking to live authentically and love freely. Let’s dive into some of the book’s best lessons and how they’ve impacted me and my relationship with Kev.
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