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Let me be the first to congratulate you on your 500th blog post. You have started my wife and I discusse
Big fingers and I hit Post Comment. As I was saying your blog has started a lot of conversation in our household. From female led to cuckolding. I remember that post where you came out and said you weren’t too jazzed about cuckolding. When I read it I thought ( she doesn’t know what she is missing). I favorite blog is ( How a cuckold should give a blowjob) wife would like me to get to that level of submission. Please take day off once in a while. Please don’t burn yourself out ..
Thank you so much, is there anything else I’m missing out on? Inquiring minds want to know! We’ve been cozying up to domestic discipline lately, mostly because @subhubphx and his lovely lady are so fond of it, I figure we must be missing something there.
Can’t go wrong with domestic discipline. We were married young 19 and 21. Her Grandmother passed down the Spencer spanking plan to us. If ether one of us screws up..we own up to it and take our punishment. I have probably screwed up the most, but wife has had her behind strapped plenty of times too..
Emma, it’s hard to put into words how much encouragement I’ve found on the pages of your blog! There is no other site about psychology of relationship that I visit with the same regularity. You have created a platform that is a daily occurrence for me (I still reread old posts from the first one, and I have a huge file of links and talking points that I send to my Beloved).
I love your work, appreciate every post, your willingness to respond to those in need and help in difficult situations. You are an angel! Thank you that you exist!
I wish your blog to prosper! And to you – the best life you can create! You are awesome!
Emma – Please don’t burn yourself out. Take a little time to rest. We’ll be here when you get back. 🙂
Emma, the throuple you are developing is fascinating to me. It makes sense to me to understand it as a”V” with two very different sides and you in the middle. But the two sides do intersect. You explained about how Kev was there, and helped, when you decided to forego condoms and go bareback with Erik. Assuming that Kev is still permitted his one release on Sunday evenings, how does that play out with Erik in the picture?