When I married Kev, I never thought much about his size. In fact, I didn’t think size mattered much at all. He has what is a mostly average penis - a boyfriend dick and I found it perfectly fine. It's smaller size is even endearing at times. Even when it is out of its cage, it is non-threatening and never intimidating.
Kev is thoughtful, kind, and emotionally connected, which makes him an incredible husband. He’s the type of guy who makes you tea when you’re sick and gets Bella, our dog, up and out for walks when it’s pouring rain. A true partner in life that I can't live without.
I began to notice something about myself—a quiet longing I hadn’t fully admitted to. This wasn’t about love or commitment. It wasn’t about replacing Kev or finding someone new. It was about craving something more—something purely physical. Sexual and emotional needs are different, acknowledging that difference can be key to embracing new levels of personal and relational happiness.
I want to share this journey because I know many women face similar feelings but feel afraid to voice them. Society tells us we should be happy with what we have, that it’s selfish or shallow to want more. But here’s the truth: advocating for our pleasure doesn’t make us less of a wife. It makes us more of one.
Let’s talk numbers. Studies have shown that the average erect penis measures about 5.16 inches in length and 4.59 inches in girth. While this may be sufficient for many women, research indicates a notable difference between the average size and the sizes women often find most satisfying. For short-term hookups or casual relationships, women report an ideal length of around 6.4 inches and a girth of about 5.0 inches. This preference is likely due to the more intense physical sensations that larger sizes can provide, including a fuller feeling during penetration and enhanced stimulation of erogenous zones like the G-spot and cervix.
When it comes to long-term relationships, the ideal size slightly decreases. Women in committed partnerships prioritize emotional connection and sexual comfort over size, making a more average "boyfriend dick" desirable. This term affectionately refers to a penis size that is comfortable for regular intimacy, offering consistent pleasure without discomfort. While larger sizes might be thrilling for casual encounters, they are not always practical or necessary for long-term satisfaction.…
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This is an excellent article. My Wife and I had this discussion several years ago — she felt unfulfilled, unsatisfied and frustrated with our sexual life. She told me she really missed the physical sensation of being “filled up” inside during sex. After that conversation, I told her she be with other men. She has been very happy since then.
Well-endowed guys go into long term relationships and get married too though. If he’d even entertain the idea of an open relationship, he probably is attentive and cares enough about her satisfaction to use his endowment to fully satisfy her. What could the woman want that he can’t give?
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