I've hesitated to post this too quickly but knew I would post it sooner or later since typing my thoughts tends to give me a sort of mental clarity. I love all of you and really enjoy running this blog but I selfishly gain a greater understanding of myself by being forced to compose my thoughts. This also means that I sometimes like to let things develop or run their course before posting them.
Over the course of the Covid-19 lock-down, Kev and I have done a decent job of limiting our social activities and staying indoors. Kev and I are generally social people with fairly active circles of friends. Becoming a Covid homebody has been rough but it has allowed us to slow down and spend time together.
Kevin and I have a wonderful relationship. He is husband material for sure. Kev is a caring, wholesome wonderful man and we have a bond like no other. I am genuinely blessed to have him in my life. Everything about our life is wonderful and I look forward to spending every moment of my day with him. The lock-down has forced us to spend more time together and has only proven to bring us closer together.
This is going to be a boring blog if I just talk about how much I love Kevin but I promise, it will get more interesting. I just need to quickly set the stage so you know that I am coming from the utmost place of love.
Our apartment complex has a common area with a pool, gym, fire pit, outdoor bbq area and a ping pong table. The indoor pool and gym are both closed but the tv, couch and ping pong table are open. I've never really played ping pong much. I guess they figure that ping pong players are six feet away so it is social distancing friendly so it hasn't been roped off. Kev and I have played a bit and he is far better than I am. Kev had a ping pong table in his house growing up so after a few games, some natural talent came back and he started beating me pretty badly. It was quite an ugly sight if I'm to be quite honest.
Kevin got back into cooking a bit but there wasn't much to do aside from cooking, playing video games and watching tv together. I had some family issues during the lock down that had me feeling down so activities were helpful to keep our minds occupied.…
Wow.
Great Story!!
More please!!!
Must admit I didn’t see that one coming.
So is this something that you think will become a regular part of Kev and your lives?
MsTara – So far we are really enjoying it. We met Andrew back in May and I’ve got a few more to write. It was all incredibly hot and seemed like an erotic story the way it unfolded so I wanted to write the whole thing out. I really enjoyed writing so I might end up writing some fiction whenever I run out of actual stories. Did you enjoy?
Hi Emma – I think I was kind of surprised as none of your writing to date had shown any indications that you and Kev were anything other than monogamous.
All power to you both if this is something that you will both enjoy.
I have to admit that I recognise some parallels in my own marriage which is why I am interested to see where this leads you both.
So I’m not sure enjoy is the right word, but interested and intrigued to hear how this unfolds for you is probably a better description.
Oh, and yes the way you described it was erotic.
I actually have thought about it a great deal and Kev and I have discussed more than I illustrated in the story. I’ll probably go back and add more fluff at some point. Or maybe I’ll add a followup. I am not sure where I stand with the whole thing, we just decided to take our opportunity and roll with it I guess.
I started thinking about polyandry early last year in this blog:
https://evolvingyourman.com/2019/04/22/monogamy-is-boring/
You probably think I am going to start making a case for polyandry or cuckolding or something like that. I’m not. I actually love the idea behind society’s relationship partnership concept. Maybe I’ve been brainwashed or don’t know better but I just like the idea of feeling comfortable with finding my “one”. Even if you sometimes feel like you may not be wired that way, it is important to figure out how to keep sex with the same guy interesting. I will say that the “newness” of a relationship is enticing. The butterflies, the unknown, the new touch, the new smells, everything. How can you recreate those without venturing out to a different lover?
Firstly, both tellings of your events are well done, and showcases how I feel most people would want thing to unfold. In addition to being very exciting, I have been out on good behavior for a couple of days and needed to voluntarily cage myself to assure it stayed that way.
With that said I fall pretty well in line with how I read your feelings, and Kevin’s. I am more than happy to spend my years with my wife, she is above all else my best friend. With that said, we have talked and fantasized about an additional partner to play with. She has a few more reservations than I do about, mostly in guilt for “cheating”.
I have offered my opinion that I don’t see sharing it as cheating as long as both partners are aware and consenting to at least the possibility of it. My desire to she my wife happy so great that the amount of compression (thanks for the term by the way) I feel for her pleasure far outweighs the possibility of viewing her have sex with another person in a negative manner. Whether or not it progresses beyond fantasy play is entirely in her court, as it should be, and I am happy to leave it there.
I agree that it isn’t cheating since Kevin and I were both intimate with him. Cheating would be going behind his back and being dishonest about anything. I can understand the feelings of guilt and shame as I battled them as well. I may write about that at some point.
Hi Emma.
Thank you for this powerful, eminently and incredibly erotic text. It was a great pleasure to read it. Hoping that it will lead you and Kevin to new pleasures.
Ben
The unbridled excitement was almost overwhelming. We certainly enjoyed it and are going to see where it takes us. Thanks Ben!
Enjoyed reading it (esp. with the cage). You are a terrific writer! However, I couldn’t help stop thinking about the immense risk you both took with the covid outbreak.
Thank you. Yeah we did take a big risk and it wasn’t discussed much. We have been careful with regard to Covid but we have also been frustrated, bored and a whole slew of emotions. It was an spontaneous decision and it could certainly have taken a bad turn for both of us. We did both have a sign of relief about two weeks later when none of us developed any symptoms. I hope everyone stays safe and healthy. Love you all.
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