Today, we're diving into a question that many in the female led and the cuckold community might find themselves pondering: Is it possible to maintain a healthy and fulfilling relationship with your cuckold partner while also pursuing a real, emotional relationship with a bull? This topic is not only complex but also speaks to the evolving nature of modern relationships. How mature is a cuckold relationship in the context of polyamory? Can fetishizing a secondary relationship be a long term way to justify a cuckold relationship dynamic for your primary relationship?
So what are we waiting for? Let's get to exploring the exciting, sometimes nerve-wracking, world of polyamorous cuckold relationships!
First, let's break down the basics. A cuckold relationship typically involves a primary couple where one partner (usually the man, referred to as the cuckold) derives pleasure from their partner (often the woman) being sexually involved with another man (the bull). Traditionally, the cuckold enjoys aspects of humiliation, denial, and the thrill of their partner being pleasured by another. Often the cuckold dynamic explains in very clear terms that the wife is off with her boyfriend/bull because of the husband/cuck's inferior equipment and sexual performance.
In many cuckold relationships, the dynamic is primarily sexual. The emotional and romantic bond remains firmly between the primary couple, ensuring that the cuckold partner's emotional needs are met, even as their sexual desires are explored in unconventional ways. But what happens when the heart gets involved? ❤️
So, you've started to catch feelings for your bull, and guess what? He's feeling the same way. It's a beautiful and complex situation. Sex is deeply connective and if the chemistry is right, it is understandable that you might catch feelings. You love your cuckold partner deeply, but the connection with your bull is growing stronger, both physically and emotionally. This is where the waters get a bit murky.
The short answer is: Yes, it can work. But (and it's a big but), it requires a lot of communication, honesty, and emotional intelligence from everyone involved. Let's dive deeper into how you can navigate this tricky but potentially rewarding path.…
“Is it possible to maintain a healthy and fulfilling relationship with your cuckold partner while also pursuing a real, emotional relationship with a bull?”
This makes me sad. I had always hoped, and never, ever thought I’d see the pursuit of this.
It seems that at every step along the evolutionary process of a man here, includes the erosion of a previously agreed-upon boundary of the man, and a contradiction of what was also previously declared as being something so sacred to the woman that nothing would ever happen to threaten it. Yet here we are.
In the beginning, most cuckold men are asked to trust their wives to safeguard the relationships. The “evolution” that has taken place over time here has proven to be a series betraying that trust, a little at a time. Logically, eventually, there will be no more trust to give because the “primary” relationship will have eroded into something that isn’t a loving relationship at all, whether that path was intentional or not.
This makes me sad too.
Just so I can understand your point of view, if you don’t mind, what makes you sad about what was written? How do you see it as betraying trust or are you stating from your view, in your relationship it would be betraying your trust? I don’t understand the logical leap you took from wives safeguarding relationships to the erosion unless there is a health heap of assumptions sprinkled in that process.
Assumptions? It’s not assumptions. It’s the logical next step(s) in the erosion of the foundation of a marriage … even if the cuck husband says he approves. Eventually, there will be nowhere else to evolve but the disintegration of a mutual, exclusive love once had.
Because it seems there has been a systematic (not sure if it is intentional) degradation of boundaries and previous declarations. If in the beginning, it is espoused that a wife fucking another man and not her husband is merely because of a physical need, and specifically NOT for an emotional need, or in pursuit of a “real, emotional relationship with a bull”, well trust is broken. If a wife wants to fuck other men, and in doing so allows the husband to establish boundaries, only to have every one of them challenged to the point of them breaking, it’s sad. Most wives that fuck other men will vehemently declare that their cuck husband is their “primary” (whatever that means), because of the emotional relationship they have. When that last solid structure of their relationship is compromised, it’s the beginning of the end.
JMHO – The classic husband or B/F locked in a chastity cage, being cuckolded by his wife or G/F with a better endowed man model can and should be part of every Female Led Relationship. This can be introduced gradually of course, but locked up males should be taught to accept and submit to this. The ideal situation is when the locked up male is restrained, and made to watch. 🙂
This is ridiculous.
I disagree. Any man who would let a woman lock him in a chastity cage, richly deserves to be pegged, spanked, feminized, cuckolded, and otherwise dominated by a woman. It’s normally what these men want in the 1st place.
I disagree. A man doesn’t ‘deserve’ any of those things, nor is any of them a foregone conclusion. Maybe for you, but not others.
I agree with Cali, it’s a bit tiring that way of talking, sorry.
I disagree with this assertion as well but I will not gate keep your views, from your view, on your relationship and how that should be. The comments about all men are presumptive at best though speaking exclusively for yourself are completely on point.
Hello.
If humiliation is part of your dynamic, use it as a coping strategy for your husband to justify the secondary relationship.
Yes. I find it very humiliating the justification of a second relationship. A way to put the first partner into a mental subspace.
Verbal denial rituals including reminders of why you are sleeping in the bulls room instead of with your cuck or why you start your evening in your bull’s room before coming to bed to cleanup, cuddle and sleep with your cuck.
Yes. Cuckold tasks are unfairs, but that’s his role.
2. Shared Experiences:
Involve your cuckold partner in your interactions with the bull, if all parties are comfortable. This could mean allowing him to watch or participate in ways that emphasize his cuckold role.
Remember that denial is a shared experience, the fact that he is actively denied means that he is a participant.
Yes. He has to suffer that denial as a part of his role.
3. Special Rituals:
Create special rituals that reinforce the dynamic. This could be something as simple as having your cuckold partner prepare the room for you and your bull or engaging in acts of service that highlight his role. This could also mean cleanup rituals or certain types of sex acts being reserved for one partner or the other.
Yes. It must be hard having to prepare the room. Seen before.
1. Sarah and Mark: Sarah and Mark had been in a cuckold relationship for five years when Sarah started developing feelings for their latest bull, Jake. They decided to embrace polyamory with open communication and regular check-ins. Today, Sarah, Mark, and Jake enjoy a harmonious triad relationship where everyone’s needs are met. Sarah chose to discontinue the cuckold side of the relationship and focus on the feelings for both Mark and Jake.
Altering the dynamic was difficult for Mark to understand and rationalize and Sarah’s passionate animalistic feelings subdued into more realistic and love based energies as the relationship shifted to something based less on the cuckold fetish and more on a true emotional bond.
Don’t like it.
2. Emily and Tom: Emily and Tom introduced a bull into their relationship to spice up their sex life. When Emily fell for the bull, Tom initially struggled with jealousy. However, through open discussions and therapy, they managed to create a polyamorous dynamic that allowed Emily to pursue her relationship with the bull while maintaining her primary bond with Tom. Emily was clear with Tom that her emotional connection was split between him and her bull. Some elements of cuckoldry and group play with a strong submission dynamic remained and this helped the three manage a relationship coexistence with the three ultimately moving in together.
I find the fact of the bull moving home puts the primary partner in a role of sexual slave.
3. Tonya and Sam: Tonya and Sam had been in a cuckold relationship with elements of humiliation that Sam sexualized to gain understanding an acceptance. For Sam, the relationship with Tonya was greatly enhanced by a third by fetishizing Tonya’s lack of desire for him. In fact Tonya greatly valued her emotional connection with Sam but was able to disconnect from the family aspects to explore with her lover. Without Sam’s deep emotional bond, the care-free dynamic of the added boyfriend would be impossible.
Tonya’s dominant personality and Sam’s equipment being on the smaller size, allowed Tonya a completely different sexual experience with both men. In fact, much of Tonya’s sexual relationship with Sam is emotional and thrives on Tonya’s enthusiastic creativity for humiliation and fetishizing the cuckold denial aspects. The three ultimately moved in together,
establishing a clear pecking order between the two men.
I would love to know examples of that enthusiastic creativity for humiliation and fetishizing the cuckold denial aspects.
So, lovely readers, if you find yourself catching feelings for your bull, take a deep breath and embrace the journey. With love, honesty, and a touch of adventure, you can explore new dimensions of your relationship and create a beautiful, polyamorous cuckold dynamic.
I find very very arousing the fact of a “hotwife” coaching other girls to create a cuckold relationship.
Thank you.
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