Hey there, lovely readers! Emma here, and I’m beyond excited to take you on a little journey behind the scenes of how this blog, Evolving Your Man, came to be and how it’s blossomed into what it is today. So buckle up, because we’re diving deep into the evolution of our sexual exploration and how it’s been a wild, thrilling ride for my husband Kev and I.
Let’s rewind to a few years ago. Kev and I were in a steady, loving relationship, but like most couples, we were always looking for ways to spice things up and understand each others needs better. We started talking about what we liked, what we wanted to try, and most importantly, how we could make our relationship even stronger. After plenty of wine-fueled conversations (as the best ones often are), we stumbled upon the world of male chastity.
That was a turning point for us. I realized just how much I loved the dynamic of being in control, and Kev discovered how much it turned him on to be denied. From there, we started to explore more – slowly at first – but male chastity became a major part of our intimacy. The idea of control, teasing, and edging just hit all the right spots, so much so that it felt natural to start writing about it. That’s when I thought, “Why not share our journey?” There weren’t a lot of open, friendly, and flirty spaces online where couples could talk about these things without shame or judgment. So, I started this little humble blog on WordPress.
Back then, it was just a small outlet where I could write about what we were learning and discovering together. I never imagined it would grow into the website you’re reading today!
Yoga Girl was a huge inspiration for me back in the early days of Evolving Your Man. Her now-defunct blog, FLR101 that I've partially archived, really opened my eyes to the dynamics of female-led relationships (FLR). While her approach was a bit more forceful and strict than what Kev and I were ready for, her candidness about power exchange in relationships was eye-opening. She wasn’t afraid to push boundaries and challenge traditional gender roles, and that boldness was something I admired. She and her blog are mostly gone now, but it planted a seed that helped me explore my own path in female-led dynamics, and I’ll always be grateful for that spark of inspiration.
So, male chastity was our first big step into what I like to call “relationship evolution” and it reinforced the female led relationship that felt so natural in our relationship. But we didn’t stop at male chastity. After all, once you get a taste of power, why not take it to the next level, right? …
It looks very much like the younger generation(s) are onboard with this lifestyle. Not surprising though considering the fact that most young boys now grow up being supervised by mothers, female teachers, female counselors, female classmates, and female workplace superiors. Maybe it’s time to get into the male chastity cage business!