In my previous blog, I posted a quiz which used a few questions to determine if male chastity might be right for your relationship. Approximately 89% of respondents were...

Orgasm control and enforced chastity is a huge benefit for many couples. Please take this quiz to see if it might be right for you and your relationship. Take the...

While I don't have any way to disprove or authenticate the statistic in the header image for this blog which states "An estimated one in every 6 straight men...

Happy Father's Day to all you dads out there. Just a quick blog to remind us to be playful all throughout the year. The ability to joke and play...

The honor system has been working well for us and I don't believe that Kevin has done anything behind my back but I miss the cage so it is...

As our society's definition of authority evolves, women are the new men. As you take a moment to think about that, it might actually have some truth to it. I...

Part two of some user-requested questions from our forum. For the previous blog, you can check out From His Perspective. I didn't expect to be doing another Q&A session...

Hi everyone. You've been hearing about my sex life from Em for some time. I have to admit that I am a bit insecure writing this blog since you...

Humiliation is a varied thing amongst men. Some guys really enjoy it. Some guys like it in small, teasing doses. Some guys crave it when locked up as an...

Communication about sex is essential but most couples simply don't talk about it. More evolved couples will come up with a game such as turning on a red light...

We've been trying a mixed bag of things in our relationship and I've been diligently documenting things for you all to enjoy. Some things have worked and others haven't...

The dictionary defines compersion as: The feeling of joy one has experiencing another's joy, such as in witnessing a toddler's joy and feeling joy in response. You can think of compersion...

I've been thinking about what makes a woman sexually awake and how men respond to her behavior since it differs from societal norms. This isn't going to be an...

We've been using the cage as a relationship tool for well over a year now. We should have celebrated an anniversary for it. ?? What would you call it,...

In a successful relationship, decisions are shared, money is shared and both parties have an equal say in the relationship and the direction of the couple. So how can...

This is part 2 of Vegas Ang’s Story, a forum member who joined earlier this month. We had two phone interviews which I recorded and took furious notes. Great...

Male Sex Hormones Here are some details about the sex hormones that make all of this so exciting: We hear a lot about testosterone, and it is a huge thing in...

This is part 1 of Vegas Ang's Story, a forum member who joined earlier this month. We had two phone interviews which I recorded and took furious notes. Great...

Alright maybe men aren't boring but monogamy can get boring. Our entire lives we are taught that we need to find our prince charming, marry him with some big...

As you undoubtedly know from reading my site, I successfully use the cage as a behavior modification tool to help him learn to restrict himself to the orgasm schedule...

Typically men find themselves most attracted to women their age or younger. Women, on the other hand usually find men older than them to be most attractive. The male...

This isn't going to be an article about the twisted underworld of chastity, this is about feelings. This is about ensuring that the feelings that you are hoping to...

In your relationship, one of you likely keeps track of the sex calendar. You know what I mean, the formal or informal calendar that lists the last time you...

So much of the material that you find on the internet about male submission and female dominance tends to minimize the value of the submissive man. If a man...

2020 Update - this blog was written over a year ago and I decided not to take it down but it doesn't really represent the relationship that we have...