Locktober is the challenge that couples do each year to see how much sex controls their relationship. Sex is a wonderful part of a relationship and I am an...

Sometimes a woman just needs to descend to her primal instincts rather than traditionally/societal feminine roles. Sometimes she needs to feel what it is like to fully dominate her...

Life needs to be exciting to keep us interested, we are sexual beings and we need to be challenged sexually just as we do with our relationships. If we...

Can you create a fetish in your guy thorough the use of operant conditioning? Operant conditioning is a type of learning where behavior is controlled by consequences. You can...

Kevin and I love experimenting. Nothing new for us. We like to learn as much as we can about this whole sexuality level and then tweak it to our...

In my previous blog, I posted a quiz which used a few questions to determine if male chastity might be right for your relationship. Approximately 89% of respondents were...

Orgasm control and enforced chastity is a huge benefit for many couples. Please take this quiz to see if it might be right for you and your relationship. Take the...

While I don't have any way to disprove or authenticate the statistic in the header image for this blog which states "An estimated one in every 6 straight men...

Happy Father's Day to all you dads out there. Just a quick blog to remind us to be playful all throughout the year. The ability to joke and play...

The honor system has been working well for us and I don't believe that Kevin has done anything behind my back but I miss the cage so it is...

As our society's definition of authority evolves, women are the new men. As you take a moment to think about that, it might actually have some truth to it. I...

Part two of some user-requested questions from our forum. For the previous blog, you can check out From His Perspective. I didn't expect to be doing another Q&A session...

Hi everyone. You've been hearing about my sex life from Em for some time. I have to admit that I am a bit insecure writing this blog since you...

Humiliation is a varied thing amongst men. Some guys really enjoy it. Some guys like it in small, teasing doses. Some guys crave it when locked up as an...

Communication about sex is essential but most couples simply don't talk about it. More evolved couples will come up with a game such as turning on a red light...

We've been trying a mixed bag of things in our relationship and I've been diligently documenting things for you all to enjoy. Some things have worked and others haven't...

You can think of compersion as the opposite of envy. The envious response to the above would be feeling envy rather than joy when watching the toddler. Compersion is an interesting thing when applied to lovemaking.

I've been thinking about what makes a woman sexually awake and how men respond to her behavior since it differs from societal norms. This isn't going to be an...

We've been using the cage as a relationship tool for well over a year now. We should have celebrated an anniversary for it. ?? What would you call it,...

In a successful relationship, decisions are shared, money is shared and both parties have an equal say in the relationship and the direction of the couple. So how can...

This is part 2 of Vegas Ang’s Story, a forum member who joined earlier this month. We had two phone interviews which I recorded and took furious notes. Great...

Let's talk about the neurochemical cocktail running through your man's body every single time you touch him, deny him, or reward him. Understanding male sex hormones isn't some dry...

This is part 1 of Vegas Ang's Story, a forum member who joined earlier this month. We had two phone interviews which I recorded and took furious notes. Great...

Alright maybe men aren't boring but monogamy can get boring. Our entire lives we are taught that we need to find our prince charming, marry him with some big...

As you undoubtedly know from reading my site, I successfully use the cage as a behavior modification tool to help him learn to restrict himself to the orgasm schedule...