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What Kind of Man: The Boss

It seems that quite a few guys that have commented and messaged me are not stereotypically submissive men in their day to day lives by any stretch of the...

N̶e̶w̶ ̶S̶it̶e̶ Not Yet

TL;DR;So after reading all of your comments and realizing what I've actually enjoyed about this blog, I've decided to keep things as-is for now. The thing I've really enjoyed with...

FLR 101 – Reader Letter: Wife Has Low Libido (FLR101)

This is one of a few blogs that were published by Yoga Girl at her website at http://flr101.blogspot.com. This site is now offline but all credit goes to her. "Hi...

New Site, Who Dis?

Alright so my friend Andrea (not her real name) and I spent the last week or so and most of the day today working on the idea and programming...

Sharing the Magic

Hi everyone, first post of 2019! I had a request to write about one of the times that I shared my favorite relationship secret with one of my friends....

The Future

Over the course of the last few months I've been telling my girlfriends about the benefits of chastity (much to the dismay of their boyfriends/husbands). One of my best...

26 Reasons to 🔒 the 🍆 in your modern marriage.

A bunch of reasons in no particular order. I'll probably add to them over time as the benefits keep rolling in. Feel free to add your own in the...

Ejaculation Frequency

So how often should he be allowed to cum? Traditional Chinese medicine teaches the following: “A man may attain health and longevity if he practices an ejaculation frequency of twice monthly...

To Eat His Own

Those of you that have been following along have seen that I am genuinely not interested in the fetish side of things. I am really just looking to use...

Holding the Power

We had a discussion today that made me think of this. My guy trusts me to hold the power of his orgasms and I ration them back to him...

Feeling Normal

We had an interesting conversation this evening that I decided to share with you despite family being in town and all of the Christmas festivities in the household this...

Modern Marriage: Male Chastity & Sexual Pressure

One of the best things about locking your man is the complete removal of pressure to have sex. Previously I would feel like we would flirt through the day...

So You Want Her To Lock You Up?

I started this blog a month or two ago and the single biggest question is from guys asking how they can get their girlfriends or wives to lock them...

Sex Schedule

Are you a monster? Scheduling sex takes the fun out of it! You might think so but I've found that setting expectations and taking privileges away if life gets...

Modern Marriage: 6 Ways To Tease Your Man

Teasing is one of the best things about having your man on a release cycle as it allows you to exert your dominance on him. Whether locked or not,...

Reader Letter: Are There Self Esteem Issues? (FLR101)

This is one of a few blogs that were published by Yoga Girl at her website at http://flr101.blogspot.com. This site is now offline but all credit goes...

The Self Perception and Purpose of the Retaining Male (FLR101)

This is one of a few blogs that were published by Yoga Girl at her website at http://flr101.blogspot.com. This site is now offline but all credit goes to her. Once...

Preparing Your Yoni To Receive The Retaining Man’s Lingam (FLR101)

This is one of a few blogs that were published by Yoga Girl at her website at http://flr101.blogspot.com. This site is now offline but all credit goes to her. It's...

Wife Has Low Libido (FLR101)

This is the one of a few blogs that were published by Yoga Girl at her website at http://flr101.blogspot.com. This site is now offline but all credit goes to...

Sticking To The Program – Finding My Lilith (FLR101)

This is the first of a few blogs that were published by Yoga Girl at her website at http://flr101.blogspot.com. This site is now offline but all credit goes to...

Your Husband’s Special Relationship – Breaking Up Is Hard To Do (FLR101)

This is on of a few blogs that were published by Yoga Girl at her website at http://flr101.blogspot.com. This site is now offline but all credit goes to her. I'm...

Moving Forward An Evolution (FLR101)

This is one of a few blogs that were published by Yoga Girl at her website at http://flr101.blogspot.com. This site is now offline but all credit goes to her. I...

How Do You Know If Your Husband Masturbates Too Much?

Ask your man how much he masturbates and I think you will be very surprised. If he says anything less than once per day he is probably lying. Men...

Managing Your Man’s Release

Men’s sexuality works a little differently from women’s, and a big part of that difference comes down to biology. A man’s body is continually producing sperm in an ongoing...

How She Feels About Pegging

When she is fucking you, it’s not the pleasurable sensation of the base of her strap-on on her clit she’s getting off on. She can rub her clit better and...

My Journey Into A Loving Female Led Relationship: Chapter 1

Time has a peculiar way of unfolding, revealing layers of our lives in ways we often don’t anticipate. As I sit down to recount this story, I can’t help but reflect on the journey that brought me to this point—a journey filled with love, challenges, and awakening.