1) At what point in your life did the idea of submitting to a woman start to appeal to you—or even excite you? I’ve noticed that most of the people and couples I meet in this lifestyle are over 40, and almost all say they wish they’d started far earlier. Does this resonate with you?
I suppose it started with a couple of my female teachers in high school. I was more attracted to them than to girls my own age.
My Wife is about twice my age (31M/66F) and we were first together when I was 18 and She was 53. I didn't know there was a name for it back then, but She has always been the Dominant partner in our relationship - we have been married almost 7 years now.
2) If you could set the intensity of your Wife-Led Marriage, what level would be preferable for you? (Levels 1-4)
Karin and I are around a 3, and it works well for us.
3) Are there things you secretly wish your dominant wife or partner would do, but you’re a bit too shy—or reluctant—to ask for?
Most recently, we did Locktober in 2024 (I asked for it) which had been on my list.
She took my virginity (both PIV, and Her pegging me) when I was 18. Taking a young man's virginity had been one of Her fantasies, and I would love for Her to get the opportunity to do the same with another man.
I've never asked, but I would love for Her to teach a pegging class to other FLR-aspiring women, and use me (caged) as a demonstration, CFNM-style.
4)If there’s a significant age difference where the dominant woman is younger than the submissive male, does this add an extra spark or present unique challenges? How does it shape the roles and dynamics in your relationship? (This could also apply to non-marital situations, such as with professional Dommes, etc.)
I'm generally attracted to older women (it probably goes back to #1 and being more attracted to my teachers than classmates.)
5) Have you ever regretted doing something as a submissive (could you explain a bit)?
Not specifically as a sub, but I told a long-term (male) friend of mine the details about the relationship my Wife and I enjoy, including about Her pegging me. He basically said I was on the road to becoming a (insert gay slur here) and has had nothing to do with me since. I don't need that kind of negativity, so I haven't told any other friends of mine.
1) At what point in your life did the idea of submitting to a woman start to appeal to you—or even excite you? I’ve noticed that most of the people and couples I meet in this lifestyle are over 40, and almost all say they wish they’d started far earlier. Does this resonate with you?
2) If you could set the intensity of your Wife-Led Marriage, what level would be preferable for you? (Levels 1-4)
3) Are there things you secretly wish your dominant wife or partner would do, but you’re a bit too shy—or reluctant—to ask for?
4)If there’s a significant age difference where the dominant woman is younger than the submissive male, does this add an extra spark or present unique challenges? How does it shape the roles and dynamics in your relationship? (This could also apply to non-marital situations, such as with professional Dommes, etc.)
5) Have you ever regretted doing something as a submissive (could you explain a bit)?
Q: 1) At what point in your life did the idea of submitting to a woman start to appeal to you—or even excite you? A: From my early teen years, though I was tall, my penis was undersized (4") and grew up being dominated by female teachers, classmates, counselors, and workplace supervisors. By adulthood, I had accepted female domination as my fate. Q: 2) If you could set the intensity of your Wife-Led Marriage, what level would be preferable for you? (Levels 1-4) A: Level 3. Q: 3) Are there things you secretly wish your dominant wife or partner would do, but you’re a bit too shy—or reluctant—to ask for? A: My wife is not dominant, nor does she wish to be. Q: 4) If there’s a significant age difference where the dominant woman is younger than the submissive male, does this add an extra spark or present unique challenges? A: No, I've had several female workplace supervisors who are younger, attractive, and quite dominant, and I've accepted my submissive with them, just as much as they seem to enjoy dominating me. Q: 5) Have you ever regretted doing something as a submissive. A: Yes, Once I wanted sex with my girlfriend, and she didn't want to. When I insisted, she only saw me in public and spent 2 weeks teasing and denying me with suggestive clothing, rubbing against me, then denying me sex. I soon learned to submit to her wishes and do as I'm told.
